What are the main hints that a guy likes you for you and who you are and to mean it, rather than sweet talk or being a player.

I'm sceptical of the word player as I'm sure lads can be genuine despite having girls as friends and know the have good looks.

Wow, well there isn't a list of things that we all go by, every guy is different. The majority of the time, you'll know he cares about you if he goes out of his way to make you feel significant and special.

There are a number of things that a guy can do to show that they care and I think every girl knows when a guy is being sincere or when he is just trying to get in your pants. It's just an intuition you all have. ;)

if he always be there for you?. always want to talk to u and no one else?. always try to get your attention and care about you what you think about him?. ^^

lol... yup those things lol

Just listen to your heart when it tells you RED FLAG!