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welderchick
Jan 30, 2006, 11:16 PM
I was wondering why I get horrible pain after being fingered by my b/f ?

PrettyLady
Jan 31, 2006, 12:19 AM
Welderchick, if sex play is uncomfortable or hurts, you should tell your boyfriend. Keep in mind that fingernails can scratch and hurt. Also, your probably not sexually aroused enough and the vaginal entrance is not lubricated enough for penetration. Try using a lubricant, or tell him not to be so rough. Remember to make him wash his hands and fingers before he fingers you because you can get a urinary tract infection and we want you to be safe.

fredg
Jan 31, 2006, 06:09 AM
Hi,
I fully agree with Pretty's suggestions.
I can't think of any reasons this would hurt, except for not being wet, fingernails, or he is being absolutely too rough.
I have a feeling your boyfriend won't be your boyfriend very long, if you don't talk with him about this. Why? Because you can't keep going like this. I do wish you and he the best of luck.

PrettyLady
Jan 31, 2006, 05:28 PM
Fred, I know. I had to make sure that I covered everything because you can tell that she is very young and she was in need of help. Let's hope that she follows the preparations before having this kind of sex play.