airwalk_man
Mar 6, 2008, 07:14 PM
All right the synopsis,
-Met a girl online a two weeks ago, we chatted and decided to meet.
-Gorgeous, smart, funny and we are compatible with even the smallest similarities.
-I set a date up, arranged and organized everything, with no glitches. Stand up comedy if you should know.
-I was confident, funny, and a little bit cocky throughout the date, and I was reciprocating positive feelings from her, more then I have in the past. We exchanged some kisses but nothing beyond that.
-She tells me she had an awesome time and "never laughed so hard in her life" the Sunday of that weekend. (I'll even prove it on my FaceB).
Therefore, I'm hooked. I haven't been knocked on the head with a quality woman that may like me (which it sounds) in a long time. I didn't want to be Mr. Clingy so I gave it a few days to communicate, and I was hoping that she would feel like giving me a shout during the week. People where saying "the ball is in her court" (whatever that means) But she didn't. I end up calling to make plans today, and she gives me the "I'm studying and I have to catch up, so call me on Saturday morning, and we'll see if we can do something". When really, I log onto the site that we met and she's online on the search or answering her messages, this is what's giving me the conflict here.
What the hell do you want? Do you want a guy to call right away and be all clingy or do you want the few day break so that you don't get that impression. One of my female roommates says she lives by the three day rule, and the other says its circumstantial. The rule is total bullsh*t if you ask me. So now I'm thinking I dug my own grave, or maybe she is genuinely busy and we "might" actually do something?
I'm an attractive mid 20ties male and have my head on my shoulders with my own company and mentally stable, and I have a tad bit of bad boy in me. I'm not trying to boost my ego, but honestly, I can't get this first three dates off the ground. I know this question has probably been beat to death on this site, but I need to know some facts on my own terms. Its really starting to frustrate me, and maybe I just had to type it out. Anyway, Thanks for the help.
-Met a girl online a two weeks ago, we chatted and decided to meet.
-Gorgeous, smart, funny and we are compatible with even the smallest similarities.
-I set a date up, arranged and organized everything, with no glitches. Stand up comedy if you should know.
-I was confident, funny, and a little bit cocky throughout the date, and I was reciprocating positive feelings from her, more then I have in the past. We exchanged some kisses but nothing beyond that.
-She tells me she had an awesome time and "never laughed so hard in her life" the Sunday of that weekend. (I'll even prove it on my FaceB).
Therefore, I'm hooked. I haven't been knocked on the head with a quality woman that may like me (which it sounds) in a long time. I didn't want to be Mr. Clingy so I gave it a few days to communicate, and I was hoping that she would feel like giving me a shout during the week. People where saying "the ball is in her court" (whatever that means) But she didn't. I end up calling to make plans today, and she gives me the "I'm studying and I have to catch up, so call me on Saturday morning, and we'll see if we can do something". When really, I log onto the site that we met and she's online on the search or answering her messages, this is what's giving me the conflict here.
What the hell do you want? Do you want a guy to call right away and be all clingy or do you want the few day break so that you don't get that impression. One of my female roommates says she lives by the three day rule, and the other says its circumstantial. The rule is total bullsh*t if you ask me. So now I'm thinking I dug my own grave, or maybe she is genuinely busy and we "might" actually do something?
I'm an attractive mid 20ties male and have my head on my shoulders with my own company and mentally stable, and I have a tad bit of bad boy in me. I'm not trying to boost my ego, but honestly, I can't get this first three dates off the ground. I know this question has probably been beat to death on this site, but I need to know some facts on my own terms. Its really starting to frustrate me, and maybe I just had to type it out. Anyway, Thanks for the help.