What do I do when my girlfriend of 4yrs wants to move to Las Vegas to go to nursing school instead of just going here in our hometown? She wants to take our dog and just leave to a whole other state and she doesn't want me to move with her, and she hasn't discussed with me where we stand as a couple once she leaves. She says that she loves me and wants to be together but does she really? And can it work out if she does want to stay together? Right now we are broken up and have been for a week now, we still tell each other we love one another and that we want to work it out and that we can't see ourselves without the other but is it all just going to crap?

If she doesn't want you to go with her, and she doesn't have a ggod reason than there is something up with that... maybe she meet someone else on the internet or something and that's why she's moving far away

Flat out if she said she doesn't want you to go, then it's over.

She is just going to keep holding you on long distance until she has the balls to let you go. Just don't beat this to death and break it off now.

Dude I would let her go, she obviously doesn't mean what she is say otherwise you would be moving with her or she would be staying there!

I think its clear she has dumped you, so fugure its over, and time to move on. Sucks bigtime I know. Ouch!