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shanny_2006
Mar 4, 2008, 07:15 PM
I really like this guy but it seems as if I'm being too easy and because of this he's not taking me seriously. He asked to take me out and I said yes without any hesitation and when he tells me to call him, I call him. How can I play hard to get so that he can like me as much as I like him . I want him to be all mine despite the fact that he talks to a lot of other girls.

Simple Asian
Mar 4, 2008, 08:09 PM
Don't...

What happens when girls play hard to get is that the guy will think that the girls into them and the guys will move on...

I hate be playing hard to get.. if the girls do that.. I'll like F this.. I am not going to be there...

So just be yourself... be normal... if he doesn't like you he doesn't...

susangpyp
Mar 4, 2008, 08:26 PM
It's always helpful to have your own life and then you're not playing hard to get but you are sometimes unavailable because you're busy with your own stuff and that can intrigue people... everyone likes people who have their own interests and time off by themselves... well anyone who is healthy. So pull back and pay attention to your own life then you're not "playing"... you are a completely interesting person who will be more interesting to others.

hello903
Mar 6, 2008, 01:34 PM
Okay you don't want him to think that he has you whenever he wants you. So when he does he will only want to talk to you on his convienence. Just don't give him wants he wants all the time and he will want it more...

GonnaGoThereOneDay
Mar 6, 2008, 01:41 PM
Don't make it seem as if you don't want him . But make sure your not available to him 24/7 so make sure you have your own life too . Not just him. And if he tells you to call him . Wait a while then call him . Tell him you have been swamped with stuff to do . Then he knows you have a busy schedule but make the time to fit him in .


Hope it helps :]

HistorianChick
Mar 6, 2008, 01:53 PM
Darlin, you don't need to play "hard to get," you need to play "you"... and the only person who can play you is YOU! (that was confusing, sorry!)

What I'm trying to say is never try to be something that you're not for someone else. Being yourself is the most attractive thing you'll ever be! Don't second guess yourself - be natural... just be you.

And he'll see that you're divinity-in-a-nifty-package! If he doesn't like who you are then he's not worth it. Because you da bomb, babe! :)