Hi, I´m a 16 year old male, I admit to looking up porn sometimes, does this make me a pervert? Will it turn me into a pervert?

Porn can become an addiction, and in such, it can effect your healthy sex life latter, just read here almost every night some lady complaining her husband or boyfriend would rather watch porn and take care of business hisself, than have sex with their partner.

It can also give you a bad idea and poor respect for women

Will it turn me into a pervert?Hello Mr.

If you're lucky.

excon

I don't believe it makes you a pervert, but I do not speak for everyone. Other people may see you as a pervert.

If a woman looks at porn, she's not frowned upon. Nine times out of ten, she's "cool".

Porn can become an addiction, and in such, it can effect your healthy sex life latter... It can also give you a bad idea and poor respect for women

I agree to an extent... Porn can make you a "pervert" if it becomes an addiction and it replaces an actual human being. It can effect your views on women, but I think other factors other then porn alone alter your views on women (ie: what you grew up seeing and past relationships with women).

That being said, I think that porn can simply be a way to safely explore curiousities or fantasies. I think if just used on occasion its healthy.

I tried hard to ignore the word pervert, since often what your sexual ideas are, may not be the same as mine, I may view yours as "preverted" to may idea, but I understand not everyone has those same ideas.

What concerns me about porn is how it effects your interaction with your sexual partner.

He's 16, curious, and probably horny and not getting laid (like most teenage boys--sorry MrUnknown!) I think if its just occasional, its not abnormal.

My fiancée sells it for side money there's a lot of porn out there and a lot of people watching it watching it does not make you a perv. When you get into more hardcore kinds of porn or different less accepted kinds even then it does not make you a perv to the uptight guy next door mabie but to the real world people who know about different kinds of porn and are more open deffinatly not especially our generation (im 17) its more accepted

Hello again, Mr:

As usual, the Padre and I think alike. I don't know what a pervert is, either. I wouldn't call anything two consenting adults do in the privacy of their bedroom perverted. Some people would.

I do know what ILLEGAL is, however. Therefore, since you can't buy porn that depicts an illegal act, watching porn and copying every move might turn you into a pervert, but it won't turn you into a child molester or a rapist.

excon

Child porn yes! Granny rape porn no

After many years of comfortably watching porn as a fun and happy outlet for the times when real sex was not available, it seemed harmless and fun. Eventually, it became an addiction and as with all addictions it affected my relationship, and I believe, over sexualises the brain, particularly the male brain... everywhere you go, you see hot girls and instantly wonder what it would be like to have sex with them. You can also start to wonder if all girls are sluts, simply because there is so much porn out there that you start to wonder if every girl would have sex for a bit of cash and a camera. So yes, it does,eventually over sexualise and numb you to real life sex and all that jazz.

Hello free:

It only does that if you have NO respect for women in the first place.

excon