OK I am totally desperate for some good advice here because this problem has been ongoing and totally frustating... so hia goes! OK I'm a young woman and have often shaved or waxed my pubic region for special occasions - usually its a trim to keep things neat - anyhow no matter what shaving creams/moisterizers/after waxing-shaving gels etc I use.. I always get little bumps everywhere and it gets really grosse and red & itchy and NOT so hot anymore after just the first day of having my privates hair free... I'v also noticed that its now getting darker in that particular region... does ANYONE have any advice??

Next time shave downward, somehow it just works better that way. For your problem of darker tone down there.. You will need a Bikini Gel, its made for bikini area to whitening and soften its color.

When I shave I don't use any cream and I don't get a rash or anything. :)

Yes yolanda_lee is right bikini gel will help with the coloring, but also the rashes will subside after the first month.

Have you ever use nair sensitive hair remover it works...

-it for legs arms underarms and bikini area.
-me and my friends use it.
-you can find it at CVS[pharmacy]. Or any other.
-it on sale at CVs for 3.95 check it out. No shaving or waxing.

-its good on the bikini area.