I really don't know, I'm 12 and I'm attracted to this boy, and I'm a boy as well but I also have feelings for another girl and I'm confused.. will I grow out of these feelings or are they here to stay? :confused:

hey you might just be going through a stage it might pass but I'm sure your not gay if u like girls to you might b bisexual but who knows it might pass x x

Jackie sweetheart -

Don't worry about labels. Just be you. Your 12... have fun. Hang out with your friends.

Don't let others who feel it necessary to come up with labels bring you down or overthink who you are. Just be you.

Internally, your system is still growing and figuring things out. Let things run their course.

Be happy, hang out with those who are your true friends and enjoy just being you, with the only label being the name you were born with.

Okay :)

Maybe your bisexual if you having feelings for a girl there's a good chance your not gay your most likely just going threw a stage where your confused and your mixing a good friendship with feelings wait a few years and if you still have feelings about boys then talk to your parents.Hope this was helpful.

Well, it's possible, but also possible you might not be. At 12, it can be hard to try to figure this stuff out. I think that as you grow up, you will get a better idea of who you are. But don't feel badly if you are confused right now. Just relax, have fun being the age you are, and don't worry about it for now. You don't have to put a label on yourself. I have talked to many people who were confused about their sexuality at some point or another. In time, I think things will become more clear to you.

I think Fiona92 makes a good point that sometimes people can confuse friendship feelings with romance feelings. You can love people in many different ways, and it can be confusing sometimes.

Well at 12 you are not really sexual at all, or should not be. This is where and when hormones start messing with all young people. Most likely your feelings will clear up over the next few years before you start dating seriously.

Hey hun;
Ergh.. it's a really difficult subject weather your gay or not.
But you just need to be yourself, you don't need to be worrying about this.
Trust me, you'll find out as your get older you could even be a bisexual.
But you won't know definitely for a whilee.

X

I'm the only kid on the block that wears pink tshirts and white pants :)

You may just have a strong admiration and look up to him
That wouldn't mean you are gay.

My son that is in the army likes wearing pink (I think more as something out of the norm)
He says, "I am secure with my masculinity SO I CAN!"

Well as a gay man I will tell you that when I was 12 I was confused as well. I had girlfriends and boyfriends. To make a long story short, you might be gay or bi or straight. You really don't know tell you get older and start having feelings more for men or women or both. So to answer your question I will tell you that it is too early to tell. Just do like I did see what you like better boys or girls. You might like them both. Who knows but you? Hope this helps.