Hi,

I have a huge problem about my father-in-law. First we became friends when I married his son on October of 2005. Since then we became friends, I have a great relationship from my loving husband and now we have a daughter who is 3 months old. :)

But I have a problem about my father-in-law, he suggested that I should wear something more perverse in his taste and I don't like the way he talks to me. He often asks me how my 'chest' is doing and I get offended and he often asks me how the weather is affecting my chest and body, I try to talk to him in a normal conversation but my father-in-law talks about meeting me. And he wanted me to give him a kiss if I were to meet up with him, and the point I that I don't want to meet him. Because I know he will try to grab me, because his son(my husband) tells me that his father is a huge pervert and in previous years. He even suggested that he wanted to have a sexual relationship with me, and I am still married to his loving son.

What do you think I should do, if my father-in-law comes around unexpectly? I called the cops on him, and they said they can't do nothing about it. :eek:

Depending on the state you are in, you CAN do something about it. You may not be able to kick him off your property before he does something, but if he tries to go at you, there is certainly a way to keep him away from you.

I would tell him that the police are involved and will deal with him, even if they are not. Try to find ways to keep him from coming near you.

Have you spoken to your husband about the situation? Maybe he can talk to his dad and tell him not to talk to you like that and make perverse suggestions toward you.

I have, but my father-in-law is very stubborn. He thinks he can do better then my husband.