chamberlainJohn
Feb 24, 2008, 05:48 PM
Hello . I married my wife in the Ukraine (Kharkiv) 18 months ago. I am a UK resident and she a Ukrainian resident. After another 6 months , she will be able to obtain an ' indefinite leave to say Visa' which would entitle her to remain in the UK for as long#g as she wishes. From the time she arrived to live here with me in England, I have always felt sometime was not quite right. I enclosed a letter she wrote to her son complaining that I was treating her bad, and she just need to suffer until she gets the Visa to remain. I spoke to her about the letter and she told me it was a silly letter she wrote she she was in a bad mood. Then although she was clear she would not wish to work while my wife here in the UK, she changed and is working all the hours made, and sending back most of the cash back to her family, who we had be supporting with my income. Then a year ago she told me she own lots (5000 do#llars to various credit cards in the Ukraine )of money and if I try to not give her /help her get the visit after the 2 years is up she will leave me and work illegally and leave me and hide in the illegal work force. I feel I have been part of a scam. I want to prepare myself so she will not accuse him of harming her ( I have never laid a hand on her ) and because I still love her ( love in Blind , and I hope each day she is misunderstood by me). I feel I need some paperwork ready for a quick summary to show the Visa office in case it is obviously a scam. What can anyone suggest I do *** email deleted for posters protection FC***