My boyfriend wants me to give him oral, and I'm not too sure how. I don't want to do anything wrong.

As long as you don't bite or scrape with your teeth you should be fine, please investigate protection though, such as a dental dam. etc. as disease can be passed via oral sex.

Ask him to direct you. If he is willing, he can show you what his willy likes with his hand. Some guys like more stimulation of the head. Some like it deep. Some prefer hands out of contact, some want your hands aiding your mouth. It's difficult to ask with a mouthful but it's fun to try.

Your gag reflex may kick in if you try to take in too much right away. That's where hands can come in handy. The gag reflex usually subsides with practice and if you are getting into what you're doing. Protection is a good idea, but takes a little planning.

He will tell you what he likes... just take the head of his penis between your lips and slowly pull your lips off and ask for directions. :D

Just like everything in life, in order to have competence, practice practice practice.

You might consider renting a porn flick to see how its done.

I don't want to do anything wrong.
Honey, if the fear of doing things poorly kept me from trying them, id never have learned a thing.

If I know ANYTHING about sex it is because I tried, sometimes got it "right", sometimes "failed" and learned.

The best sex occurs when you have open communication and you are comfortable enough to try what you are trying, without worrying about "failure"... sex is complicated. Different people like different things.

That said, here's a link to a similar question posted here.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/how-give-oral-111751.html

You might consider renting a porn flick to see how its done.


That is soooo right ScottGem! Watch the flick with your man, and go to work. Quick hint though: The head is the most sensitive part of the penis, so as long as you work the head right, the rest will follow. You also might want to consider "tea bagging", which is where you suck his balls (sounds gross, but works great for the novice).:eek: