SonofSam
Feb 21, 2008, 05:20 PM
I just started a job and for the first week this guy named "Jim" trained me. He also works in the same area and I see him daily.
At first I got the impression that he was laid back and enjoyed joking around and what not, as long as we also stayed on task. We'd have conversations about whatever and seemed to get along well.
Well, fast forward 1 month. This guy's attitude has completely changed toward me. At times I work directly across from him he'll completely ignore me and not say a word. He'll also act annoyed as if I'm not working fast enough or what not.
I tried making casual conversation with him today and he completely blew me off, and even made snide sarcastic remarks to me after that.
It seemed like he was in a better mood later so I tried joking around with him and for some reason he took what I said personally. [He had won some sports pool and I said that's how come he never works overtime]
Anyway he got really offensive and attacked verbally with some really nasty below the belt kind of stuff. He told me that he sensed a that I was angry about something and need to accept criticism better and that its part of the learning process.
I'm a good worker and am rather outgoing and got along quite well with my co workers right off the bat. Maybe he doesn't like seeing people succeed? Maybe he wants people to be as miserable as him? Or is it like the same concept how Seniors always hate the freshman?
Anyone know what makes people like this tick and how to deal with them?
At first I got the impression that he was laid back and enjoyed joking around and what not, as long as we also stayed on task. We'd have conversations about whatever and seemed to get along well.
Well, fast forward 1 month. This guy's attitude has completely changed toward me. At times I work directly across from him he'll completely ignore me and not say a word. He'll also act annoyed as if I'm not working fast enough or what not.
I tried making casual conversation with him today and he completely blew me off, and even made snide sarcastic remarks to me after that.
It seemed like he was in a better mood later so I tried joking around with him and for some reason he took what I said personally. [He had won some sports pool and I said that's how come he never works overtime]
Anyway he got really offensive and attacked verbally with some really nasty below the belt kind of stuff. He told me that he sensed a that I was angry about something and need to accept criticism better and that its part of the learning process.
I'm a good worker and am rather outgoing and got along quite well with my co workers right off the bat. Maybe he doesn't like seeing people succeed? Maybe he wants people to be as miserable as him? Or is it like the same concept how Seniors always hate the freshman?
Anyone know what makes people like this tick and how to deal with them?