If someone wants you


If he/she wants you nothing can't keep them away
If they don't want you nothing can make them stay
The volume on your intuition is turned up don't ignore it
Don't make justification for their improper behavior
If they mistreated you why are you moping around as if they were the best thing in the universe? (Unless you like the abuse which I highly doubt)
Don't try to change yourself in the liking of your mate.
Don't try to make them happy if you are not happy.
If someone is mistreated you in your relationship and want to remain friends decline! Friends don't mistreat friends.
Don't stay with the hopes it will get better, you will only resent it in the long run, and dwindle in misery for letting time pass.
Avoid conflict with kids mother/father drama.
Don't share friends, your partner friends should not be your friends.
Always be true speak your mind to your mate
You can't change anyone's behavior they have to change themselves
Don't ever put your partner on a pedestal and make them more important than you are.
If they cheated with you they will cheat on you!
Don't always be responsible for arguments even when you know they are wrong
Never look for someone to complete you, each person need to be THEIR own individual. Someone complimentary not supplementary.
There is nothing wrong with dating..
Don't always be available to give each other space they will come around when they miss you.
Don't commit to anyone who is not giving you all you want DO NOT lower your standards.
Don't let anyone manipulate your mental state by telling you what you want to hear instead of showing you what you need to see.
Don't neglect your hygiene and wonder why he/she don't want to get intimate with you.
stalking, harassing, prying, assuming, plundering, into your partner's personal belongings are NOT ADVISABLE you may find what you deserve.. Curiosity killed the cat!

Jolie, you always give great advice! Good to see you back. :)

jolie, you always give great advice! Good to see you back. :)


Thanks It's been a while, I know... Had computer issues, finally just brought a new one.. been slacking...

Dating while in a relationship? Really??

I think that was a "if your not in a relationship" dating is OK :P Great points jollie, reading that I can see how many I wasn't following in my last relationship :( Oh well, lesson learned.

I think that was a "if your not in a relationship" dating is ok :P Great points jollie, reading that i can see how many i wasnt following in my last relationship :( Oh well, lesson learned.


Thanks... actually couldn't think of a good title... but that is what I meant...

Great advice! But I think we should be cautious about our intuition from time to time. I firmly believe that at times we need to be logical and reasonable during certain situations because our intuition is often clouded by our emotions.

Excellent advice! Now where were you before I got married? Could have saved me the trouble of divorce!:p

Now where were you before I got married?


Getting divorced... lol

Lmao!

Great post I agree with you.


Don't ever put your partner on a pedestal and make them more important than you are.
If they cheated with you they will cheat on you!
Don't always be responsible for arguments even when you know they are wrong
Never look for someone to complete you, each person need to be THEIR own individual. Someone complimentary not supplementary.