hey guys,

basically my problem is, I love my boyfriend, but sometimes I feel its not for me as I don't want the commitment. I like to be free to do what I want, I don't mean pulling random lads, I just mean either going out with friends or sitting on my own for a night and chilling etc.

secondly, why can I very easily talk about sex, dirty sex, etc but when it comes to do it I'm not interested, sex doesn't bother me, its just I don't like dirty sex, but when I talk to mates or other lad mates I can very easily talk about it and it not bother me in the slightest, worried as I want to please my boyfriend as he does me, but dirty sex just isn't for me.

Its your body, and if you don't feel like it don't, that's not a bad thing. Actually it's a very good thing, and nothing to worry about.

You are curious, you just have not found the right guy yet. Take your time you will like it. Good luck