Do you find large vaginal lips sexy or not. I have a large labia, and my lips are a brownish tint? Is this gross?

I think women are so much more concerned about their labia than men are. Short answer-no I don't care-any labia are good labia to me.

large labia=sexy
small labia=sexy

no labia=not so sexy

I will agree with xrayman, I doubt many men care less, most are too busy thinking about their own desire and needs to really pay much attention. And yes I will agree that women worry about this more than a man will think about it, in his entire life time.

I never gave a second thought to the appearance of my external genitalia... the labia can't be too large, can they??

Not a man, but I'm a curious woman. :)

I was once married to a man who was very concerned with labial appearance. I divorced him! You are sexy. Did you know that the color of someone's facial lips are a good guide to vaginal lip, and penis color? Knowing that allows you to be more choosy? Who cares?

Size of labia is not a problem, but cameltoes are not attractive. Cameltoes are large labia inside tight shorts. Picture it.

There are sites dedicated to camel toes, Tickle - honest! A former boyfriend of mine was obsessed by them. Not my passion at all.

Now about labias - why should it matter? It is not like we get to pick which one we want.

They are not gross... I've dated a woman that had vaginal lips about an inch and a half long. She had long nipples too but that's another story, and lots of fun as well.

They can be a lot of fun to play with (trust me we both loved it). Try that with a woman that has practically no vaginal lips to speak of.

The pigmentation of them has everything to do with your age and racial background as well as skin color... If you have darker lips and nipples you would be more likely to have darker labia as well.

Will 99% of the men care? No... if you meet one that does dump him.

Oprah had camel toe on her show today... she's gained weight, and she always wears her clothes too tight! HA!

There are plastic surgeons who specialize in altering female genitalia. I am not a fan of porn but have watched some in my time and after discovering this about plastic surgeons, I realized why some pron stars have no labia majora at all. It has all to do with erotica.

Their are plastic surgeons who specialize in altering female genitalia. I am not a fan of porn but have watched some in my time and after discovering this about plastic surgeons, i realized why some pron stars have no labia majora at all. It has all to do with erotica.I've seen much porn as well... While most of the women look great I tend to like the ones with the natural breasts and or/ the larger vaginal labia.

I don't like boob jobs unless the woman has the "orange in a gym sock" thing going on. And prefer the nether regions unaltered by a cosmetic surgeon, except maybe if you consider laser hair removal cosmetic surgery.

tickle, so small external genitalia are considered more attractive, then, if the porn women want to have them... come to think of it, I don't remember any prominent vaginal lips when I watched some porn.

Perhaps surgical minimization of the labia is somehow connected to the common misconception that a woman's entire crotch is a vagina. The vagina is just a hole, a tube for blood, babies and penises. Vaginas are interesting, but only when attached to the rest of the body. Maybe that's the only real trouble with porn, it disconnects.


"Value comes from what is there, usefulness from what is not there."

Lao Tsu

Wow... no idea what kind of porn you are watching, but I've seen porn with EVERY kind of body type, shape, color and size there is.

Large labia, small labia---ask a guy when you're standing in front of him naked if he sees anything in front of him but a naked woman who (probably!) is going to have sex with him.

do you find large vaginal lips sexy or not. I have a large labia, and my lips are a brownish tint? Is this gross?

I am not a guy but...

Hon, you are not alone. A very large majority of women have large, darker tinted lips. That is actually very common. Most of the women you see in porn and magazines either have had some nice photoshop work done or they get their lips bleached to make them a nice pink color. Don't worry about it so much. :)

... they get their lips bleached to make them a nice pink color.

?? Is this true? Bleached?

OK, maybe it helps with the STDs as well. ;)

...they get their lips bleached to make them a nice pink color.

??? Is this true? Bleached?

OK, maybe it helps with the STDs as well. ;)I think that's were Michael Jackson got his ideas... :eek: However I find it hard to believe he would watch regular porn.

Hi, Choux, yes I think the absence or minimal labia majora are sought after by porn stars because it makes the clitoris more prominent. As I understand it, there is also plastic surgery to make the clitoris larger as well, but I think that would minimize sensation, and they really can't advertise that for obvious reasons such as genital mutilation. It is all about money anyway, most porn stars are quite wealthy if they can moan really well.

I believe society, such as the porn industry wants people to think that a 'tucked in' vagina is the sexiest. Why? Who knows? Who got to decide if that was attractive or not?

Have you ever heard some of the nasty words used to refer to larger labia? It is disrespectful, degrading and humiliating to women.

There are all different shapes and sizes of women's genitalia.

I can't explain it either but I be it's the same people that think huge obviously fake boobs look great too.

I can't explain it either but I be its the same people that think huge obviously fake boobs look great too.

What do you mean by that? That some people think huge fake boobs are more attractive then normal ones? People these days. Men these days. No offense, Im sure you area good guy but some of them out there just make me want to teach them a lesson.

I'm glad to hear that most posts on this topic have been positive. Im assuming that all the men who posted on here are older?

I'm mid 40's.

Based on the fact so many VERY young porn stars have huge boobs that completely defy the laws of gravity someone must think they look good. A little natural saggage is a good thing when you are talking big. Now if they are dangling around the waistline of her pants that's another thing.

Take notice some time when you see the porn star on her back, one with D cups or bigger, which direction are her nipple pointing? At the ceiling or to the sides. Because I defy you to find even a 16 year old with breasts that large and that firm naturally. Actually I meant that figuratively. 16 is not an acceptable age for anyone that's on this forum in anything but for a couple states.

My point exactly. A lot of younger men concentrate on the appearance of the labia.

My point exactly. A lot of younger men concentrate on the appearance of the labia.And a lot of younger guys don't know what they are missing.

It's the same deal with avoiding large nipples... just another thing you would deprive yourself of enjoying.

I guess it all has to do with preference. I still don't see any reason to disrespect women in such a way like some men do.

Arodri20,

If you are so concerned with the appearance of your' labia, may I suggest getting them reduced? The operation is quit cheap and very quick. Just look for surgeons in your area who will do a labia reduction. The cost can range from $700-1000 depending on the type of care you get ie: geeting numb on just the 2 labia or going to a hospital and getting put to sleep.

I'm a relative newbie to this site, but I haven't been able to get this string out of my mind all weekend. I've been "out of the hunt" for a very long time, but when I was in it, I agree with synnen... it really didn't matter to a guy what sort of labia a woman had if she was naked in front of him. He basically wasn't thinking about it. It didn't matter. Back in my day, this wasn't exactly a photo op. The string brings up several other questions, though.

What about pubic hair? On men or women. OK on men? Not so OK on women? I remember the first time I discovered I was with a woman who shaved. In the moment, it was a huge turn on, but that was like the first time for anything... it was different and very sexy. (Not as wild as the first woman who wanted to be tied up or the first woman who wanted anal sex.) Now, it probably wouldn't be. I'm for natural in all things.

The flip side is what is sexy on the for guys? Do you ladies want low hanging balls? Or do they need to be "high and tight?" I suspect I know how you feel about penis size, or maybe it is worth asking the question (although I haven't read all the posts): Does size matter? Circumcised or no? Ink?