AlexPella
Feb 7, 2008, 01:52 PM
It's amazing. NC totally worked. I did the usual begging and pleading and all of that. "Please give me another chance. Please. Please." All that crap.
I did get her back for a few days but then she asked me not to call her and give her space. I was like, "Sure. You go do what you have to do. Figure it out." And that was it. I was in the NC-mentality. No argument. No resistance.
3 days into NC, she calls me... (I only answered because I deleted her ringtone, picture and number off my phone.) It was past midnight, I was sleeping and didn't recognize the ringtone. I totally thought it would be someone else.
I played it like, "Oh, what do you want? Why are you calling me?"
Now she says she wants to be with me and work things out. I'm a little hesitant because I want her to come back for the right reasons, not because she thinks she can't do better or because she's scared to lose me and perhaps thinks she can't find a better guy or something.
Now I don't know how to proceed. I was happy and I did get a sense of relief when she said all those things. But now I have this hesitation.
What do I do? How should I proceed? Please advise...
I did get her back for a few days but then she asked me not to call her and give her space. I was like, "Sure. You go do what you have to do. Figure it out." And that was it. I was in the NC-mentality. No argument. No resistance.
3 days into NC, she calls me... (I only answered because I deleted her ringtone, picture and number off my phone.) It was past midnight, I was sleeping and didn't recognize the ringtone. I totally thought it would be someone else.
I played it like, "Oh, what do you want? Why are you calling me?"
Now she says she wants to be with me and work things out. I'm a little hesitant because I want her to come back for the right reasons, not because she thinks she can't do better or because she's scared to lose me and perhaps thinks she can't find a better guy or something.
Now I don't know how to proceed. I was happy and I did get a sense of relief when she said all those things. But now I have this hesitation.
What do I do? How should I proceed? Please advise...