ive been in a relationship for a year and 8 months.. on the day of a year and 8 months, he left me. blamed it on "not seeing friends enough"...
im thinking it may be more than this, but he wont text me back and wont ring me and ignores my calls..
it hurts so much, and i feel like im not gona stop till i get him back!!

anyone got any advice?? :( :confused:

xx

Everyone is going to tell you strictly NC... Make him miss you, or begin to heal. You cannot make anyone want you back, they have to want to want you on their own. 99% of the time the person does not come back and is less likely as time goes on. Stop texting, calling or any type of contact. Put on a fake smile when you see him and walk by like you're OK. Even if deep inside you're falling apart. It is hard and I'm still going through it, but it gets better. Strictly NO CONTACT with him unless he initiates it

He left you and for whatever the reason, he's not going to just change his mind and go back. I know it might be hard not knowing. You're probably wondering what he's doing, who he's with, what he's thinking... right?

You are on the beginning stages of breaking up. NC = No Contact. Calling him and texting him and writing him will only push him away farther and farther. You need to stop doing all that.

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https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/what-expect-when-you-get-dumped-123862.html

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/list-things-do-after-breakup-78597.html


BTW hun, I'm sorry. :<