jojo55
Feb 4, 2008, 01:45 PM
My sister has been with a guy for a while and gotten herself into a HUGE mess.
She met this guy, they feel in love and wanted to get married.
He was going to pilot school, saying he will be finished in a few months, be a pilot and make lots of money. He convinces her to co-sign numerous credit cards. She co-signes for furniture financing. They rent an apartment together. HE handles all the money, all the bills, since he is the man in the house, so he said. She is so naïve to go along with all that. She gets pregnant from him too.
Finally all the credit cards are maxed out, bills are overdue. She finds out, exactly how he was handling their finances. He also drops out of school. Now he works in an convenient store.
Well, without going into all the nasty details, they broke up when she was 4 months pregnant.
Most of the credit cards were in both their name, some even only in her name . He initially agreed to pay ONE of them. He hasn't done that either, since she just started to get calls from the collection agency. She has continued to make min. payment on all the other cards as this is all she can afford. All together we are talking about 10K in credit card debt.
Second, the apartment owner were they lived together has started the eviction process since he has not paid rent in some time (she moved out when they broke up 6 months ago). But of course her name in on the eviction papers as well.
And third, the furniture they bought for their apartment. He has all of it now, yet she is on the contract. It's one of these 0% interest until 2010 deals, so most likely problems are going to arise from that in a couple years.
Now the question, is there anything that could be done? Can he be taken to court and possibly ordered to pay half the debt? Or is there just no chance since she was so naïve and co-signed everywhere?
She met this guy, they feel in love and wanted to get married.
He was going to pilot school, saying he will be finished in a few months, be a pilot and make lots of money. He convinces her to co-sign numerous credit cards. She co-signes for furniture financing. They rent an apartment together. HE handles all the money, all the bills, since he is the man in the house, so he said. She is so naïve to go along with all that. She gets pregnant from him too.
Finally all the credit cards are maxed out, bills are overdue. She finds out, exactly how he was handling their finances. He also drops out of school. Now he works in an convenient store.
Well, without going into all the nasty details, they broke up when she was 4 months pregnant.
Most of the credit cards were in both their name, some even only in her name . He initially agreed to pay ONE of them. He hasn't done that either, since she just started to get calls from the collection agency. She has continued to make min. payment on all the other cards as this is all she can afford. All together we are talking about 10K in credit card debt.
Second, the apartment owner were they lived together has started the eviction process since he has not paid rent in some time (she moved out when they broke up 6 months ago). But of course her name in on the eviction papers as well.
And third, the furniture they bought for their apartment. He has all of it now, yet she is on the contract. It's one of these 0% interest until 2010 deals, so most likely problems are going to arise from that in a couple years.
Now the question, is there anything that could be done? Can he be taken to court and possibly ordered to pay half the debt? Or is there just no chance since she was so naïve and co-signed everywhere?