View Full Version : Its this lad
miss-sexy-girl
Jan 30, 2008, 01:32 PM
This lad called kyle says he loves me but he is always around other girls the all flirt with him trying to get me jelous and it works I try and ignore it but I can't its so hard they call me a slag because he loves me and not them so its like I'm being bulled by them but its not my falt I won't to go out with him but I'm scared he will say no what should I do I really need help sugestions anyone ?
HistorianChick
Jan 30, 2008, 01:36 PM
Darlin, He's chosen you! Doesn't matter how many girls think he's hot, he chose you! That ought to make you feel pretty darn good about yourself, not make you jealous!
(or, I just re-read your post... is it that he flirts with them to make you jealous?)
TrueFaith
Jan 30, 2008, 03:54 PM
Sound like you guys are both young. Insecure men play those games to win power over girls.
Trust me he is more insecure about himself than he would have you think.
A good way to break that. Is to go up to him and go. Oh yeah that chick really wants you. Why don't you do something about it?
That will stop him dead in his boots
You act like you don't care. He won't do anymore.
He only does it because he gets a reaction from you.
Don't ever give people the power to use your feelings.
raggablue
Jan 30, 2008, 04:03 PM
And if he thinks he can't have you, he'll want you
talaniman
Jan 30, 2008, 04:34 PM
Sounds like Kyle needs his ego rubbed a lot. Let those other girls do that. You have more important things to do, than be a groupie from some youngster.
miss-sexy-girl
Feb 23, 2008, 06:42 PM
Fank yoo all for your answers
Ash123
Feb 23, 2008, 09:11 PM
As long as he puts you first and makes you feel special it's fine...
It sounds like your instincts leave you feeling a bit unsure about him.
I'd try ignoring him and the girls whenever they're together.. 100%
-and he may give you even more attention...