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Ever since I've first gone out with some one I've had issues.
the first one is I can't go back out with an x girlfrend, and the other I can't stay in a relationship.
please don't get me rong I've been with girls I love and would anything for them but I just decide I don't want to be with them.
I'm in a relationship now and I've never felt this way before about anyone before and I seriously even now I still feel like I don't want to be with her any answers please help

You haven't been in true love yet I say; maybe close but no cigar.. lol

Kind of like me I guess you like the thrill of the chase and once you have caught them you lose interest

Hey, I'm a strait up guy easy going and wuld do anything for and e girl within reason. I'm not a jealous type but lately I have been getting jealous. My girlfriend is currently at a party with booze boys and girls. She's kissed a girl already tonight and that doesn't bother me because she told me and teenage irls do that stuff. But what if she's drunk and gets with a guy she's got two options
a)she tells me if she does
b)il find out because someone will tell me
I trust her but I don't trust the other guys because I know what we are liike (sorry guys) should I talk to her about this in the morning so I don't ruin her night or just leave it

Tell her now. Or tell her later. Break up with her. She wants to party and get drunk. Your relationship with her is in her way.

Where I live the legal age you have to be to drink is 18. Now before I write this take into note I've been to parties got drunk and was the person people wanted to go. But now I hate the whole underage drinking thing and parties. Do parties have a reason other than watching people fight get drunk and laid?
I've been to parties with teenagers under the legal age to drink and they don't know how to party. You probably think I'm a tool but I've seen older people late 20s early 30s have better parties why don't the young ones just wait, please tell me your opinion id love to hear it.

You're smart. Stop hanging out with the idiots who behave poorly and hang out with the smart ones who are wisely trying to become good citizens.

Maturity is a big part of "fun parties." In most cases maturity comes with age.

Seems like you're getting a taste of that maturity... listen to it. Stop going to the parties that are just to "get drunk and laid."

Daiting is fun. It's adversarial. Hunt and chase and bob and weave.

If only some young lady would make you hunt her for more than a week or a month, you might actually find the love you seek. Girls give in and give "it" up to their guy far too quickly.

Guys are laser beams and if they hit their target too fast, it's off to find another target. Keep hunting. But try hunting in different places. If you're hunting in bars, perhaps those girls are looking to get caught more quickly. Try hunting in a place where women are typically longer in the chase, like a community event, charity outreach, church age-appropriate group, karate class, etc. You get the idea. Mix up the hunting ground.

I met my wife in a college cafeteria. Every line I'd ever (successfully) used fell flat with her. It took me months to get her to even agree to go out with me. She didn't like me, thought I was weird (I was, but I wasn't, you know?) Long story short, 25th anniversary next year. Our differences work with our comminalities to make it work long-term.

Viva la difference.

Keep living, you'll experience it, sooner or later.

It's just that you're really not in love..

All you can do is let her know how you feel and that you are concerned about her partying. What she does with the information, I'm afraid, is up to her.

No, not all teenage girls do that. If you don't want a girl like that as your girlfriend, find one that doesn't party, kiss girls, and leave you home alone wondering if she's going to end up in bed with another guy!

Darlin, you have standards... keep them. :)

If your that worried, maybe your with the wrong person. If you have to hold her hand, and keep her safe, from all the big bad wolves, then you should leave little red riding hood alone. Walking in the woods, is what she does.

Do you really trust her? If you do, then there's nothing to worry.

Stop worrying your life away. If she decides to sleep with another guy, then she's not the girl for you and accept that. You can't dictate her on doing what to do, you can only advise her what you feel is best. If she choose a path you don't agree of, be glad you know this instantly so you can do the next best step...

If she is a teenager she shouldn't be drinking anyway. She could go to jail if she gets caught. (at least if you're in the U.S. where the drinking age is 21) And not all girls kiss girls at parties. I've been to plenty and haven't done that.

If you feel like you can't trust her, then break it off. Otherwise, you will keep being suspicious whenever something like this happens. I think you should have an honest talk with her about how you feel. Explain to her that you are concerned that some guy might take advantage of her if she is too drunk. If she continues to go to parties without you, then you will have to decide if the possibility is something you can live with.

Waiting to talk to her in the morning is a good idea. Those kinds of conversations are best had when both people are sober. If you try to talk to her when she's drunk, she is just going to get upset, and may not even remember it in the morning.

This is what makes me laugh I trust her but not other guys..

Dude! Hello. Who is the guy kissing? Who is allowing it? If it was rape then yeah OK. But 10/10 times it takes two people. She will do it because she wants to. Not because the guy talks her into having sex over a friendly game of chess and a glass of water.

I trust her. But not the guys. Man no you don't or you wouldn't be talking like this. You would have nothing to fear. You don't trust her and for good reason. Don't blame it on the boys

Man I know the type. Party a lot get drunk and kiss and have sex with this.

The type of person to use..

Oh But I was drunk it doesn't count! You can't imagen how many girls have said that to me when I found out they had boyfriends lol

Or. Ohh I don't remember it so it can't be bad.

Leave her man this typ of person isn't a good person to be in a relationship with
She is the one at fault here. Not you. Not her friends HER!

At a real party, you should be surrounded by your friends all having as good time as you are.
But if everyone is too blazed or K'd-up to move then it isn't going to be much fun

My girlfriend is crabby at me. She has been negleting me. Text me like twice a day when she isn't with me a 15 minute drive to her house takes her an hour. And she say she drives slow. When she is at my house she just wants to be alone. And I asked her to come to the pool and she no she done like it but wiil go with her family and I'm not family enough. We been together for 13mnths. And it made me angry because she won't talk to me. Just because I was going to the pool with my friend and she wouldn come. Cos she wanted to stay at my house. Am I in the wrong?

Novak, I think she is playing games with you. Ignore her for a while and she will come around I am sure. Show sounds a little immature and confused about her feelings for you.

Yeah, maybe you should just leave her alone for a while and give her some space. Have you asked her about it? If something's bothering her?

If you have and she says nothing, then maybe she just needs some space.

Solutions can come from communication... Roxy's suggestion was well worded (had to spread the rep). Have you talked to her about it? So many times people come on this website looking for answers that we obviously don't have, but their significant other probably does have.

Talk to her. Even though her actions are speaking for themselves, perhaps a little communication will uncover something that sheds light on this.

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Welcome to the real world where females will never be understood by males, LOL!

They require a lot of patiences and understanding, but love is not enough to get a guy the peace and practicality he wants.

Best I can tell you is, if she is worth it, then accept her for what she is. If she is a hassle for you and you can't stand it, forget trying and hoping she will change, she wont. Thats when you leave her alone and move on.

Sorry, talaniman I never gave myself a chance to finish my comment on the post ! It should have read:' you, well we do ned a lot of patience - if we can't talk !'

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She sounds like it is all about her. She may be having emotional problems and taking it out on you. Have a talk with her and see if she will tell you exactly what is bothering her and how you two can work it out. If she continues to be impossible leave her alone for awhile. Sometimes when we make ourselves too convenient for others they tend to neglect us and take our feelings for granted.
If she still doesn't want to work at the relationship maybe it is best to just let her go.

Here's the thing I love my Gf not the normal stereotypical type of young couple. I do anything she wants me to when she asks she gets a massage every night bla bla bla. Anyway my mates got into my phone sent messages to girls dirty ones and even included pictures that we're intended for her. She seen the messages cos I didn't realise and she think I'm cheating the next day two girls came up to me while I was with my girl and asked if I got the naked pik they sent me. And I have no idea who they were. So now my GF doesn't trust me. And the worste thing is her X is a cheating ********* ****** and I want to kill him. He is her first and it kills me every time I c his name so I asked her to delete his number and she got angry and did it angry to annoy me. Then after I think its over and that she added him on Facebook I hate it because she and her friends used to talk about him all the time when I first started going out with her and wouldn't say his name. In front of me. She has really upset he makes me sick and yet icant say anything because she will turn it all around on me, I love her but I'm nearly done my last thread is going cos I get stressed with a few others things too, any ideas guys

Some friends.

Tell her what happened. If you can't get your friends to admit what really happened, then I suggest you get new friends. If she doesn't believe you, then nothing you do or say can change her feelings.

Keep better control of your stuff, man. That's how things get stolen; I've had so many belongings taken by "friends" and roommates that it's not even funny.

Best of luck,

~ Tee

EDIT - Also, she isn't completely over her ex, so she shouldn't be dating anyone else right now. You shouldn't think that you can help her, either; she has to sort it out on her own.

Yeah man my friend admitted it and that bit of a screwed up situation I been with her for over a year and a half and it'll all turn back on me when I talk about it with her, its stupid because she reckons she hates him, obviously not, I think she just wants to play games with mhy head but I reckon ill just leave it and find some omne who does trust me

If your friend admitted it and she still doesn't trust you and is talking to her ex, I'd be exiting stage left

Yeah, it really sounds like she was just using any excuse she could, and you gave her a good one, just to ditch you and start things fresh with her ex.

Yeah I broke it off with her and yet she still wants me she said her sister butted in (control freak) I had a word to her and then the I get from that I'm not going to back to her when now I'm the only talk in the family and ill get death stares and yet she finally answered me when I said why you do that , she reckon she didn't think she mean anything by it and yet she know how it made me feel, this is why males like to sleep around, no strings attatched with all the benefits