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bride2be09
Jan 29, 2008, 05:47 PM
Hi
I want to ask you why can't I get pregnant me and my fiancé have tried everything and nothing helps I'm getting more and more deppressed and I can't cope anymore I'm really worried that my fiancé will leave me if I can't have a baby I'm also worried that I'm infertile but doctors won't do a fertillity test and I'm scared in case I will be on my own forever if he leaves me I keep getting real bad stomach pains is that a sign I'm not strong enough to hold a baby please please help me before I've lost everythin

JoeCanada76
Jan 29, 2008, 06:33 PM
First of all you need to RELAX.

Stress can prevent somebody from becoming pregnant.

Doing everything possible is possibly the reason why your not able to get pregnant.

How long have you been trying?

The thing is doctors will not due any fertility tests until at least up to 2 years of trying without success.

I also believe they councel partners, depending on age and situation.

I think there are a lot more issues here just from what you wrote. If somebody leaves you because your unable to get pregnant right now, then your better off.

As far as stomach pains. Could be an ulcer from worrying way way too much.

I really recommend you see a counselor. I think it would be a positive step forward for you.