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BiWiccanAndProud
Jan 28, 2008, 10:25 AM
Okay me and my boyfriend have a glorious sex life! He knows I like to be dominated in bed and so generally he dominates me in bed, and I love it! However! Everyonce and a while I like the idea of being the dominate one and attempt it but always fail miserably! >.< Example A! I bought us some bondage tape and a small leather cat-o-nine-tails. I bound his hands above his head and though I was shy I wasn't doing to bad, but my boyfriend likes to make it a challenge for me so he will try and dominate me at the same time. Well he succeeded in lifting his bound arms around me head and pulling me down. HE WAS TIED AND STILL MANAGED TO BE IN CONTROL T.T

I'm not shy about sex I'm really not, you ask me I will tell, you want to try it I probably will. But as soon as I try to be dominate I get shy as hell! Or I get confused about what to do to him!

For example. Just a few days ago he finally used the bondage tape on me (I'd been hinting at him to use it on me cause I'm big on bondage and he finally did... probably took as long as he did to drive me mad >.<). He bound my arms behind my back and even used some as a blind fold! He was sexy and kinky as hell and he could do so much to me!

I try to dominate and I freeze cause... what the hell can you do to a guy?? I know I will try the bondage this time (and put his hands behind his back not over his head -.-), but what else can I do?

A girl you can finger her, screw her, eat her out, play with the . You can do a lot! But what can you do to a guy?? Please I need some help with this! We made a bet that he would do the bondage thing and be even more dominating then usual the other night if I would dominate him successfully two times in a row! >.< HELP!!

talaniman
Jan 28, 2008, 11:39 AM
Tie him to a sturdy pole, by his hands and feet, and use handcuffs, and a feather. HEHEHE.

mafiaangel180
Jan 28, 2008, 11:48 AM
You could bang him with a strap-on. Lol.

BiWiccanAndProud
Jan 28, 2008, 11:53 AM
If I could find a pole I would... he doesn't even have a bed frame or head board on his bed it's just mattresses on the floor... >.<

emopunk7
Jan 28, 2008, 12:48 PM
You can slap him, kiss him, lick his legs and toes... Suck on his nipples... You can pull his hair while you put your vagina on his face to lick or what not... Suffocate him with your breats and rub them on his member, then suck it and slap it as well. Then while he is laying down, sit on his thing with your back towards him and then do him and stop... then tickle his feet and every time he moves bang him hard... also rub his balls while riding him... are you kidding me... thats just a little... there's so much more you can do to a guy... Think and be creative... P.S. put ice in your mouth and freeze it then give him head... also burn a candle and pour wax on him slowly... Cmon, there's so much... hehehe... hope this helped!

TrueFaith
Jan 28, 2008, 01:59 PM
Ok I can't add much that's already been said because well :) if I say more stuff it could be offenisve

But Yay! To this post :) I love girls like you your boyfriend is a lucky man.

A good way is to tie him up from each leg and arms. Having him kind of standing up.
Then get a wipe out and wack him one :)

little firefly
Jan 28, 2008, 03:13 PM
you can slap him, kiss him, lick his legs and toes...Suck on his nipples...You can pull his hair while u put ur vagina on his face to lick or what not...Suffocate him with ur breats and rub them on his member, then suck it and slap it as well. Then while he is laying down, sit on his thing with ur back towards him and then do him and stop...then tickle his feet and every time he moves bang him hard...also rub his balls while riding him...are you kidding me...thats just a little...there's so much more you can do to a guy...Think and be creative...P.S. put ice in ur mouth and freeze it then give him head...also burn a candle and pour wax on him slowly...Cmon, there's so much...hehehe...hope this helped!

Wow!! I think just about says it all!. Just one question emopunk. Do you know this from watching bondage porn, or is it from personal experience?. hmmm... I think we should talk... PM me, I'll give you my number... ok, just kidding (I think, hehe :D )

emopunk7
Jan 28, 2008, 03:44 PM
Lol... no porn... personal experiences

BiWiccanAndProud
Jan 29, 2008, 10:57 AM
Wow O.O thanks emopunk O.O *is stunned*