I've been with this guy since I was 11 (I am 20 now) we have one child together and lot of drama between us. We've been on again off again for the last 3 years. And even with birth control I got pregnant again. With our second child. But he's family is making him move back with them (1,000 miles away) and he's 22. It makes me mad cause it remind me of what happened when we broke up.

Anyway, I just hate what we do, the on again off again. But I love him so much when we're on I just want it to last then his mother starts something that causes us to fight. And be off again. Even he says no matter what, he can't stay away from me. And I feel the same. But it's like when it's just us and our baby we're fine, but once he's family finds all hell breaks loose. And I just, don't understand why we can't be together or not be together,

Well at 22, no his family cn not make him do anything, And he is the cause of this, since he listens to his family and allow them to control him.

Until he makes a decision to stand on his own for you and his kids, this can't work, so let him go, and make sure he pays child support. You don't have time for this nonsense so tell him adios, so he can make up his mind for himself.

He needs to stand up to his family and live his own life. After 9 years you'd think they'd have gotten used to the idea.