My husband went through my bedroom drawers and found a sticky note in the bottom of the drawer that said "freak of nature" and had a spanish word signed underneath it. We have built in drawers in our bedroom which were there when we moved in. I vaugley remember seeing the sticky while moving in and thought it was silly high school stuff. For whatever reason I never removed it from the drawer. I work for a company that is owned by Mexicans and recenly received a promotion and he thinks I am sleeping with one of the higher ups in my company. I AM NOT! Amongst the other findings in my drawers he found numerous shopping bags with recepits from clothing I have bought over the months and hid from him. I fessed up to having a serious shopping addiction and am seeking help but I have not been unfatihful to him ever. He is carrying this sticky note around with him obsessing over it. I told him I would take a lie detector test anything to prove to him I am being honest. I work 40 hours a week and have 2 children I would not even have time!! Please help!! How do I get through to him??

Rrmom you don't. You stated your case and offered to take a lie dectors test and leave it at that. Tell him I will not argue with you over this... get your test ready if you want.. I'll be happy to take it. The matter is closed don't mention it to me again. Me personally I would tell him to go to hell, but I can be a Bit@h like that.