jabele
Jan 22, 2008, 05:01 PM
Hi All
I'm new to the boards and just wanted to talk a bit about my situation and get opinions...
I'm 24 year old Female and I've never had any real interest in having sex. I get horny sometimes when I'm by myself and do masterbate - but I have very weak orgasms and I don't even masterbate normally.
After having no interest in having sex with men, I decided that I was a lesbian since I do have feelings for girls and after I kissed a girl I realized I liked that and felt all of these feelings I had never before felt for men. I figured I wasn't asexual and put that idea to bed... but maybe I was wrong...
I've been dating a girl whom I love very much for over 4 months now and don't feel any passion about sex... I love giving oral to her... but when it comes time for her to go down on me I don't get excited or "wet" and always fake having an orgasm so she doesn't catch on (which I did when I did things with boys... )
Do you think I;m asexual from what I'm describing or does it sound like something else?
Is there anything I can do if, when I'm with someone, I'd rather just kiss, cuddle, and do things to her? I want to feel passion and want to have sex... but I just don't feel that way. I feel like a mess.
I'm new to the boards and just wanted to talk a bit about my situation and get opinions...
I'm 24 year old Female and I've never had any real interest in having sex. I get horny sometimes when I'm by myself and do masterbate - but I have very weak orgasms and I don't even masterbate normally.
After having no interest in having sex with men, I decided that I was a lesbian since I do have feelings for girls and after I kissed a girl I realized I liked that and felt all of these feelings I had never before felt for men. I figured I wasn't asexual and put that idea to bed... but maybe I was wrong...
I've been dating a girl whom I love very much for over 4 months now and don't feel any passion about sex... I love giving oral to her... but when it comes time for her to go down on me I don't get excited or "wet" and always fake having an orgasm so she doesn't catch on (which I did when I did things with boys... )
Do you think I;m asexual from what I'm describing or does it sound like something else?
Is there anything I can do if, when I'm with someone, I'd rather just kiss, cuddle, and do things to her? I want to feel passion and want to have sex... but I just don't feel that way. I feel like a mess.