I have always been attracted to one of my brother's friends. Every time we saw each other we both had a good time flirting back and forth. Now I find myself in the beginning of a relationship with this gentlemen and keeping it a secret from my brother. He asked me to never sleep with his friend. I mentioned to him that I was thinking about doing it and he got extremely worked up!

I have been sleeping with his friend, I believe my future husband for five months now. I want to tell him but I do not know how or if I should?

I think you should tell him. Is there any reason he doesn't want you sleeping with him? If he treats you well. That's a good thing?

No matter his reaction, be honest. There may be a reason he feels that way so, why hide the truth?