Me and my ex have been broken up for about 7 months she was my first real love we broke up because I hade anger problems and controlling issues and now that I have fixed them I want the chance to show her I have changed but she won't give me the chance to even be her friend I feel like I have to do this big gesture to show her I changed and I still care about her does any one have any suggestions or advise?

Please help me :(

bobbycoach writes: "...she wont give me the chance to even be her friend...."
I have always heard that the first love is the toughest to get over with. Maybe you are having this problem? Trust yourself because you can and will find others to love as well. There are many out there, but you have to be willing to open yourself up; it really isn't fair to her or you to try to fix yourself for her, and then make her like it. Get involved in some activities where you meet new people. You will be glad you did as time moves along.