Me and my ex have been brokken up for about 7 monthes because I had anger problems and I was controlling and now that I have fixed them I want to show her I have changed but she won't seem to give me a chance to be her friend and I feel I have to do some spectacular gestuer to show I love her can some one please help me out I need suggestions or advise on how I can get her back in to my life plese:(

YOu don't have to show her that you changed strait up, when you see her walking show it to your friends in a way that she will see, keep duing this and she will relise how much you have really changed, after a few weeks of duing this send her a love letter home telling her how much you are sorry and that you really want her back. I hope this works ***good luck***

Sadly often we can't. We can not make anyone do anything. All we can do is live our life. Most likely she moved on and you may have to realise that you have to just go on with your life.

Also how did you get your anger and control "fixed". Did you go to counseling, in the end we really show people by the way we live.