We have been married for 4 years and he continues to stare at other women. I have told him that it hurts when he does that in front of me and he gets extremely upset and acts like I'm lying.Once he stared to where the lady actually got up and stood behind someone else. He don't do this all the time but, I just want to know if this will lead to cheating. He always puts his arms around me while acting this way in front of the women. What the heck is his problem.

I will be mad too. But leading to cheating... ohhh I don't think so. Some people just can't control their eyes. If it is only his eyes then fine. But as far as cheating... I think you should test him more on that. If you have lots of doubts, I think it doesn't hurt to spy on him and find out how he acts while you are not around.

I have had it happen to me, it could be maybe a personal issue he has, more or so he could feel less attractive so he stares at these other women hoping they look back at him so he feels like he still has it? And all he needs is to maybe work on feeling better about himself. Or he could just be ignorant to you. Either way its wrong and you should have a sit down with him and try and get him to explain his meaning toward it. If he says its just harmless, its not, he's doing it for a reason, and you need to figure that out with him. As for him cheating. Maybe he will maybe not. I just think you need to talk to him about it a little more.

Chrissy, I think they resolved their issues, one way or another, already. The question was posted in January of '08.