I want to have a baby I'm 35 and I have a 10 year old I have sex 4 time aweek and I can't get one what do I need to do ?

Get both you and your partner checked to be sure there is no medical reason. Next are you tracking your more fertile cycle, so that your sex is more timed toward the better time. And then make sure there is proper break between sexual intercourse to allow him to build up.

Also how long have you been trying, it often takes one to two years of trying.

Fertility clinic.

Niska,

Where were you when I was footloose and free? I'd offer to help you, but I'm struck by the starkness of the autopsy table hanging on the wall to remind me of just how serious infidelity can be for me.

Seriously, first, stop trying so hard. If maternity is in your future, it will happen. You do not have to attack the beach as if you were the U.S. Marines trying to take the island of Tarawa from the Japanese forces.

I question, your sense of urgency when balanced against long term planning for the infant's care and development.