My boyfriend has 4 children, 2 girls 8+6 and 2 boys 5+4. Two of them stay over at the weekend but we would like to have all of them to start staying, is it illegal for them all to stay in the same room in bunk beds, we only have a 2 bedroom place?:confused:

If they are only staying for the weekend it should not be a bother. What do the children think? That's what I would do. Best of luck

They are just little. It's not like they are past puberty or anything. So I'm sure it won't be a problem. I can honestly say from my own experience that you should look into getting a 3 bedroom place because they are a part of your life, even if it is just on the weekends.

Just look at the CSD system in your state, There are 6 and 7 year old sex offenders. Personally I would not do it. Take two at a time, girls on one weekend, boys on the next weekend. And yes, look into a 3 bedroom house.

I agree with 450donn. Even if they wouldn't do anything it isn't a good idea being unsupervised something could get their curiosity a little more than you would want. Getting a three bedroom is a good idea as mafiaangel said.

It is not illegal anywhere in the US, however, it is eventually going to be in the best interest of the kids to have rooms shared only by children of the same gender. I agree that you two should be looking for a place that accommodates such an arrangement.

I agree if they are going to be a part of your lives show them by making the effort to get a 3 bedroom place. But in the mean time what's wrong with the girls having the bedroom and the boys camping out in the living room or vice versa? My kids love to sleep in my family room to the point that when they have friends over they argue over who gets to sleep in there with their friend hehe. Good luck hun! :)