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curlybenswife
Jan 16, 2008, 05:10 AM
Labour ward just rang I'm now going to be having Theo tomorrow they have moved it forward a day as all the women that were due in tomorrow popped last night tee hee.
A very excited me I'm off to clean here's hoping that I can bring on labour ;)
Questionshelp
Jan 16, 2008, 05:51 AM
Best of luck!
J_9
Jan 16, 2008, 06:06 AM
OH!! CBW!!
I can't believe the time is here already!!
I'll be in class all day, but you have that wonderful hubby of yours PM me or e-mail me with all of the info as soon as he can.
Oh, gawd, I wish I could be there!!
rpg219
Jan 16, 2008, 06:12 AM
Woo Hoo! Congrats CBW and Ben. Definitely have him post and give us updates.
curlybenswife
Jan 16, 2008, 06:14 AM
Hehehehehe I'm sure he will no doubt he will be utterly exstatic like last time lol
rpg219
Jan 16, 2008, 06:26 AM
Give him the bag to start breathing in now... lol... no passing out Ben :)
curlybenswife
Jan 16, 2008, 06:33 AM
Lol he won't pass out he was fine last time and kept me ultra calm and that's what its all about isn't it.
rpg219
Jan 16, 2008, 06:44 AM
Good job Ben! I am sure he will do the same this time.
curlybenswife
Jan 16, 2008, 09:13 AM
I have no doubt about it he is most definitely the calm part of us as a couple hehehehe
crystalbivens
Jan 16, 2008, 10:13 AM
Good luck Curly I hope all goes well for you and your little blessing.
curlybenswife
Jan 16, 2008, 11:13 AM
Hehehehehe just been in to get my pre meds and have bloods done that's it now ill be in a hospital bed from 7.45am tomorrow :D
J_9
Jan 16, 2008, 03:08 PM
Oh, maybe I'll know something by the time I get up!! That is 1:45 my time.
I can't WAIT!!
Oh, and by the looks of the tummy pics, you can't wait either.
curlybenswife
Jan 16, 2008, 03:10 PM
Hehehehehe you think, doubt he will leave me at all during the day so he won't be online till she is in bed tomorrow night :D
J_9
Jan 16, 2008, 03:12 PM
Gawd, I wish I could be there for you!!
It's killing me being so far away from my best friend at this very special time. Boo Hoo... but hey, I'll have a new nephew in only a few more hours!
curlybenswife
Jan 16, 2008, 03:13 PM
Hehehehe yep I'm having guilt trips over leaving millie though we have never been apart more than 3 hours at the most :(
J_9
Jan 16, 2008, 03:17 PM
That can be hard. But, I'm sure you will enjoy finally getting some real rest again.
Allheart
Jan 16, 2008, 03:17 PM
Oh my beautiful Laura
( and my beautful J - love you peas in a pod)
Your in my thoughts, prayers and heart.
Try and not feel guilty for that adorable Millie. You are bringing her home a lifelong gift :)
I love you so much Laura -
Sending all good thoughts your way!!
curlybenswife
Jan 16, 2008, 03:23 PM
Im hormonal lol not nervous at all more freaked by her reaction tomorrow morning when I'm not there :( and neither will daddy be poor little sod will think I have deserted her.
Alheart my darling how lovely to see you :D thank you for your good thoughts they are apreciated.
Allheart
Jan 16, 2008, 03:29 PM
That is hard Laura - but I know she will handle it like a champ!!
Before you know it, you'll all be home as one beautiful family.
J_9
Jan 16, 2008, 03:29 PM
She'll be just fine. Children are so resilient. I think we as parents tend to suffer a ton more than our children do. Will she get to come visit you and Theo in the hospital?
AH, it is so wonderful to see you again. We have missed you tremendously.
Curlyben
Jan 17, 2008, 10:19 AM
Please welcome Theodore Edward.
Arrived today at 10 am GMT by elective section weighing in at 6 Lbs 13 oz.
J_9
Jan 17, 2008, 10:21 AM
YAY!! I'm a new Aunt!!
My very first nephew!
And Mom is doing wonderfully I hope.
How is Millie handling Mum being gone?
Tuscany
Jan 17, 2008, 10:22 AM
Congrats CB and CBW.
Synnen
Jan 17, 2008, 10:22 AM
WOOOOOHOOOOOOOOOOO!
Will you post pictures when you have them?
Congratulations to the Curlyben family!
RickJ
Jan 17, 2008, 10:25 AM
Congrats Ben and Laura!!
buggage
Jan 17, 2008, 12:00 PM
Holy cow, I completely missed this thread! You don't get on several times a day, and look at what you miss! CONGRATS CURLBENS! Hah, that is so great to hear, congrats and we all look forward to seeing pics, and such. Best of wishes to all the fam
rpg219
Jan 17, 2008, 12:12 PM
Congrats!! Pics soon?
peggyhill
Jan 17, 2008, 12:14 PM
Congratulations!! That is wonderful!!
alkalineangel
Jan 17, 2008, 12:54 PM
How did I miss this thread as well? Congrats to the Curleys! :) can't wait to see pics.
Allheart
Jan 17, 2008, 02:30 PM
Congrats Laura and Ben... annnnnnd big sis Millie :):)
Welcome to the world Theo... You are loved around the world!!
startover22
Jan 18, 2008, 09:03 AM
So happy for you both! How wonderful!
JoeCanada76
Jan 20, 2008, 06:45 PM
Congratulations Cbw, and Cb. It is wonderful news. (;
Can not wait to see the pics of your new addition. (;
iAMfromHuntersBar
Jan 21, 2008, 02:10 AM
God knows how I missed this thread either!
Congratulations to you both, and Good Luck with the future and your new son!
Wooohooo!
Clough
Jan 21, 2008, 02:47 AM
Many congrats and caring thoughts going your way, Ben, Laura and Theodore Edward! :)
curlybenswife
Jan 21, 2008, 08:57 AM
Thank you ever so much guys we came home this morning and are both well and happy...
crystalbivens
Jan 21, 2008, 09:05 AM
Glad to hear your doing well now try to get some rest (if you can)
Congrats again
RickJ
Jan 21, 2008, 09:57 AM
Thankyou ever so much guys we came home this morning and are both well and happy....
Welcome Home Laura! :)
Does Ben know how to operate the washing machine? :p
startover22
Jan 21, 2008, 10:01 AM
Happy you are home CBW, hope to see some pics soon!:)
buggage
Jan 21, 2008, 10:43 AM
Welcome home!
curlybenswife
Jan 21, 2008, 03:41 PM
Hehehehehe Rick his mum does ;) she has been here looking after Millie giggle
(rick, j and heather check your email)
alkalineangel
Jan 21, 2008, 09:44 PM
No pics for me? ;)
curlybenswife
Jan 22, 2008, 01:54 AM
Ill sort it today Al it was late last night xxx how are you hunn?
curlybenswife
Jan 22, 2008, 02:35 AM
curlybenswife/Theo - Photobucket - Video and Image Hosting (http://s46.photobucket.com/albums/f132/curlybenswife/Theo/)
There you go if you didn't get email you can view the wee man there
Clough
Jan 22, 2008, 03:13 AM
Thanks for the link, Laura! Great pictures! Gosh, you look so young in your avatar! :p
rpg219
Jan 22, 2008, 04:09 AM
Your bundle of joy is precious! What a cutie. Congrats.. glad you are home and doing well.
curlybenswife
Jan 22, 2008, 04:55 AM
Thanks guys xxxx
J_9
Jan 22, 2008, 05:10 AM
OMG, he is beautiful!!
Wow, pics from the operating table! I feel like I'm there.
He's just so handsome, and Millie is quite the big sister!!
How are you feeling?
curlybenswife
Jan 22, 2008, 07:22 AM
Im feeling fine tierd but that's not exactly surprising is it only 5 days after surgery like that, Theo is just a total sweetheart very snuggly and eating and sleeping like a dream compared to millie that's for sure fingers crossed he keeps it up :D
Are you OK hunn? Studying hard I hope?
startover22
Jan 22, 2008, 08:26 AM
CBW, just beautiful, nice job. Glad to hear he is a sweety. Congratulations!
alkalineangel
Jan 22, 2008, 09:15 AM
I meant nothing by it Laura, I completely understand. :) Such a cutie you have there. Get plenty of rest and enjoy it. I can hardly believe mine is 1 month old today...
He looks like a Thomas fan in the making... I recognized some of the engines in those pics...
curlybenswife
Jan 22, 2008, 11:28 AM
Oh yes thomas and emily found there way in there, she is a complete thomas addict at the moment its nice to watch something different that's for sure.
buggage
Jan 22, 2008, 02:18 PM
Oh my gosh, he is precious!!
RubyPitbull
Jan 22, 2008, 04:41 PM
Thank you Ben for steering me to this link!
He is an absolutely gorgeous boy! Congratulations to you both!
I am very, very glad that everyone is healthy and doing well. Laura, rest up my dear girl. Xoxoxoxo
tamed
Jan 22, 2008, 07:22 PM
Congratulations Mr & Mrs Curlyben, he looks absolutely gorgeous! I can't believe I missed everything.
J_9
Jan 22, 2008, 07:27 PM
CBW... When does Auntie J get to babysit?
curlybenswife
Jan 23, 2008, 03:12 AM
Come on over J these cuddles he is handing out are just lovely and snuggly hehehehehe
Tamed my love how are you?? And your girls??
Hehehehehe thank you Buggage do hope you aren't broody ;)
Ruby my dear Im glad you found us hehehehe and the pictures the greedy little might has spent the last 3 hours feeding on and off it was 4 in the bed this morning millie decided she didn't want to sleep in her bed :(
RubyPitbull
Jan 23, 2008, 06:57 AM
Uh oh. Millie is already getting tired of her brother taking attention from her. Guess the novely has worn off for her. LOL! You poor thing. You must be exhausted. Do you have anyone helping you and Ben or are you both just handling it all on your own? Anyone taking Millie out for play time or play dates for a couple of hours a day to give you a little down time? I think Auntie J needs to hop across the pond now. ;)
Tuscany
Jan 23, 2008, 08:12 AM
CB and CBW- What an absolutely Gorgeous family you have. Congrats to all of you!
Homegirl 50
Jan 23, 2008, 08:35 AM
Congratulations on the birth of your angel
Allheart
Jan 23, 2008, 01:24 PM
OMG!! Laura he is sooooooooooooooo perfect.! Just beautiful.
Hope you are feeling okay and I know Millie is being the best big sister ever!!
You and Ben sure do make them beautiful Laura!!
You all must be on cloud 9.
Enjoy!!
Much love always!
curlybenswife
Jan 23, 2008, 01:30 PM
Hhehehehehe not a bad looking little stick is he but then I'm bi-est he is mine after all, its definitely nice to be home that's for sure and millie just adores him poor girl is full of cold though bless her.
Hope your well hunn xxxx
chattede
Jan 24, 2008, 03:14 PM
Best of luck... don't worry... every thing will be smooth and healthy...
J_9
Jan 24, 2008, 04:14 PM
Best of luck....don't worry .......every thing will be smooth and healthy ...
Umm, please look immediately above your post. It's pretty obvious that things went smoothly and that Theo is healthy. They came home 4 days ago.
Chattede, I understand you are new here, but please read entire posts before answering.
Chery
Jan 24, 2008, 05:28 PM
CONGRATS Laura and Ben... Theodore is absolutely beautiful. Not a bad Starsign to be born under either! I wish him lots of love, warmth, prosperity and health!
Love,
Chery.
http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/15/15_5_16.gif (http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZSYYYYYYMXDE) Here is his first Virtual Teddy Bear...
iAMfromHuntersBar
Jan 25, 2008, 02:13 AM
Awesome pictures CBW! Thanks for sharing! Hope you're not aching too much!
curlybenswife
Jan 25, 2008, 05:38 AM
Hehehehehehe Thank you Chery and I am he is definitely a total sweetheart and I'm still kind of amazed he is so good makes Millie look like some kind of devil when she came home that's for sure hehehehe
J_9
Jan 25, 2008, 06:47 AM
He's just so precious CBW. I just want to kiss those pudgy little cheeks every time I see them! I'm so glad he is good for you, you are a very lucky woman.
Are you feeling well? Getting enough rest?
rpg219
Jan 25, 2008, 07:08 AM
Just swinging by to see that handsome boy of yours this morning... hope you are doing well CBW.
curlybenswife
Jan 25, 2008, 10:28 AM
Hehehehehe Im good a few minor problems but there all being sorted, Im still kind of achey and the scars pulling but that's just healing I'm certainly getting more rest than I did when millie was born I was to busy going back and fourth to the baby unit then to even have a afternoon nap so this times like a walk in the park.
Hope your well j we will have to do cam chat soon so you can coo over the little man lol rpg how are you feeling sweety??
J_9
Jan 25, 2008, 10:31 AM
I'm so happy for your hun, you really deserve this.
And Big Sister Millie must be so proud!!
curlybenswife
Jan 25, 2008, 11:10 AM
Millie just loves him to bits its sooooo sweet she is mimicking us talking to him its really funny and she holds his hand and says its OK its OK when he is crying its rather a huge relief to have her like this that's for sure and long may it continue :D
J_9
Jan 25, 2008, 11:13 AM
Sounds like Flower when J was born. Maybe you have a Mum's little helper on your hands. Sweet little girl. I just love Madame.
curlybenswife
Jan 25, 2008, 11:23 AM
I hope so I really do
rpg219
Jan 25, 2008, 12:30 PM
Awwww, she is such a good big sis.
I am doing pretty good... trying to keep my spirits up.. thanks.
curlybenswife
Jan 25, 2008, 01:10 PM
You will be just fine hunn times a great healer
Moomin
Jan 26, 2008, 02:12 AM
Many, many congratulations! iAMfromHuntersBar gave me the good news! I hope you are all doing well!
curlybenswife
Jan 26, 2008, 04:09 AM
Thank you Moo nice to see you hunn it really is xxxxxx
Allheart
Jan 26, 2008, 05:35 AM
Millie just loves him to bits its sooooo sweet she is mimicking us talking to him its really funny and she holds his hand and says its ok its ok when he is crying its rather a huge relief to have her like this thats for sure and long may it continue :D
That's our sweet girl Millie. There was never any doubt her little brother would just capture her big beautiufl heart.
What a little sweetie she is. Truly sugar and spice... :)
Sending all my love
iAMfromHuntersBar
Feb 7, 2008, 04:44 AM
Oi Oi CBW and co.
How are you all getting on, you haven't put any updates on here for a while and I'm getting worried you've abandoned us!
Or have you snuck another thread in somewhere that I've missed?
J
curlybenswife
Feb 7, 2008, 05:00 AM
Giggle nope J I'm still here just kind of getting my head round juggling a baby and a toddler and all the other every day stuff I'm meant to do.
How you doing hunn??
iAMfromHuntersBar
Feb 7, 2008, 07:18 AM
Ha ha, I just had a mental image of you literally juggling a baby and a toddler then! Quality skills!
Not too bad, just keeping my head down and getting on with it! Half way done now! Woohoo!
curlybenswife
Feb 7, 2008, 08:13 AM
Hehehehee I could add to that but it's a family site ;)
Chery
Feb 13, 2008, 03:41 PM
CBW... I just had a mental picture of a juggler with boobs, bottles and diapers and it was funny. Wish I had the talent to draw that one...
Love you all and know you can handle it because kids are worth all the sacrifice you give - if you are lucky to be recipient of the rewards later.
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curlybenswife
Feb 14, 2008, 09:26 AM
Hehehehe I know Chery I know it's a great job really lol
http://i46.photobucket.com/albums/f132/curlybenswife/P2130017.jpg
Just thought id share this one :)
Synnen
Feb 14, 2008, 09:51 AM
Awwwwwwww... those kids are SO adorable!
buggage
Feb 14, 2008, 09:53 AM
Oh my goodness that picture is ADORABLE!
curlybenswife
Feb 14, 2008, 09:54 AM
She is soooo proud of her brodder as she calls him hehehehe
buggage
Feb 14, 2008, 09:55 AM
Don't you just love it when they take to them so well!
curlybenswife
Feb 14, 2008, 09:56 AM
She is so funny she loves to cuddle him just not when he smells
buggage
Feb 14, 2008, 09:59 AM
Hahh that's great. And then there's my son, that follows my littles around, saying " ew! he's stinky!:" then stiffs him and makes another gross face and goes " eww! he's stinky!" hah, and of course this goes on until I change him. He thinks its hilarious to give such dramatic reactions to his smelly diapers hahaha... boys. They are just so different from girls
curlybenswife
Feb 14, 2008, 10:03 AM
Hehehehehe bless um aren't kids fab
buggage
Feb 14, 2008, 10:12 AM
So fabulous. Hah. He's still got some confusion over why only mommies carry babies in their tummys hahah. I'll say something about mommy having a baby in her tummy, and he says " me too! see! " and sticks his tummy out. HAHA. I just got to laugh
Chery
Feb 14, 2008, 06:13 PM
You ladies have no idea how much I envey you and am elated for you at the same time.
Through you, I go down the wonderful memory lane and thank you so much for that chance.
Love you all.
http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/11/11_6_206.gif (http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZSYYYYYYMXDE) CBW that looks like a proud 'sissi'. That's what my brothers used to call me, and now I call them 'bruddy'...
curlybenswife
Feb 15, 2008, 01:05 AM
Hehehehehe we aim to please chery ;)
Allheart
Feb 15, 2008, 04:32 AM
hehehehe i know Chery i know its a great job really lol
http://i46.photobucket.com/albums/f132/curlybenswife/P2130017.jpg
Just thought id share this one :)
Oh my goodness, I couldn't even speak for several moments after seeing this Laura.
This is the most precious picture I have ever seen. Look how safe and happy he is being in Little Misses arms and look how happy and proud and full of love she is.
I would blow that one up.
Two precoius gifts there :). He looks like a little angel.
Millie has grown so Laura.
Now my dear when your day gets a little frazzeled you just pull this picture out and forget all the rest. I think I will do just the same.
Be proud!!
alkalineangel
Feb 15, 2008, 08:42 PM
That pic is absolutely adorable!
curlybenswife
Feb 16, 2008, 02:48 AM
Tee hee Allheart you are so funny but my god we love you :)
How's everything going Al??
Kumar H P
Feb 16, 2008, 04:22 AM
Labour ward just rang im now gonna be having Theo tommorow they have moved it forward a day as all the women that were due in tommorow popped last night tee hee.
A very excited me im off to clean heres hoping that i can bring on labour ;)
All the best
Clough
Feb 16, 2008, 04:31 AM
Originally Posted by curlybenswife
hehehehe i know Chery i know its a great job really lol
http://i46.photobucket.com/albums/f132/curlybenswife/P2130017.jpg
Just thought id share this one :)
What an incredibly sweet picture! :)
rpg219
Feb 16, 2008, 05:27 AM
Can I say... awwwwwwww :) I will be there shortly to kiss on his big ole baby cheeks, heehee. Hope all is well, CBW.
curlybenswife
Feb 16, 2008, 06:15 AM
Thanks, Craig don't be to fooled by her angelic look ;), rpg hunn how's you doing?
rpg219
Feb 16, 2008, 08:44 AM
Hi CBW, I am good these days, thanks.
LOL, yes... they can fool you with their cuteness, can't they?
curlybenswife
Feb 16, 2008, 10:15 AM
Millie seems to fool way to many people for my liking lol and she loves it.
Chery
Feb 16, 2008, 11:58 PM
hehehehehe we aim to please chery ;)
Bless you hon. You have no idea of the depth of pleasure and warmth I get from you - to the point that it makes me cry sometimes. But at least these tears are happy ones and that does not happen often in my life.
Love you!
curlybenswife
Feb 17, 2008, 07:00 AM
Hehehehehe No need to be sad hunn you are incdredibly loved ;)
Allheart
Feb 17, 2008, 07:24 AM
Bless you hon. You have no idea of the depth of pleasure and warmth I get from you - to the point that it makes me cry sometimes. But at least these tears are happy ones and that does not happen often in my life.
Love you!
CBW is a beautiful soul... and doesn't she make the most gorgeous children :).
Oh and Chery, you are beatuful as well and the amount of people's hearts that you touched, is countless.
***hugs to two special women****
Chery
Feb 17, 2008, 07:34 AM
http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/36/36_3_16.gif (http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZSYYYYYYMXDE) Bless you too Allheart. Right now I'm relaxing with Jon Secada, too bad it's only his music lol, and then it will be Michael Bolton's turn (before he cut his hair and turned classic on me) Ahhhh, thank goodness still can move to the sexy music.
Ta Ta for Now Girls.
Allheart
Feb 17, 2008, 07:53 AM
http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/36/36_3_16.gif (http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZSYYYYYYMXDE) Bless you too Allheart. Right now I'm relaxing with Jon Secada, too bad it's only his music lol, and then it will be Michael Bolton's turn (before he cut his hair and turned classic on me) Ahhhh, thank goodness still can move to the sexy music.
Ta Ta for Now Girls.
Bless you too and here's a little something for you to enjoy while relaxing ;) Enjoy beautiful one :). We can lean on each other... always
snwXZMDMPS4
Chery
Feb 17, 2008, 09:20 AM
ALLHEART!
You just made my evening wonderful!
This is one evening I'm going to forget TV and just enjoy that site till the cows come home.
I might ask you to send that song to my brothers because I don't have an account with U-Tube.
Thanks again darling, I'm crying tears of joy right now, thanks to wonderful you.
Love,
Cher
curlybenswife
Feb 17, 2008, 10:07 AM
Hehehehehehe you two are such hunnys and I love you dearly, Allheart your email box has a special few pics in it for your viewing pleasure we went to feed the ducks today and you know what that means ;) I tested the new pushchair hehehehehe
Chery
Feb 17, 2008, 11:18 AM
I think I should post this one on PG roll call just to show moms that their girls can make a whole lotta noise and get paid well for it.
If I'd have heard Candy while PG, who knows, she might have played more than just the flute in school.
YouTube - Candy Dulfer - Lily Was Here (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k2d33uUTiH4&feature=related)
The movie version is what got me to like this lady and she's getting better all the time. This one is still the best though, let me know if you think so too.
YouTube - Lily was here (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RRV33NnV-5U&feature=related)
Both are the same song,, but oh how different.
Night,night. P.S. Chery was here!
curlybenswife
Feb 17, 2008, 11:27 AM
Hehehehehe I think the one thing millie must have heard constantly when she was in me was a cat purring hehehehe as for theo well he will have heard her motor mouth all the time giggle.
Chery
Feb 17, 2008, 11:37 AM
With me it was a lot of country music and the Doobie Brothers cause she was born in Goergia, but when Jaime was PG my Larry used to love to lay on her tummy and listen to the baby and he'd to purred like there was no end to a sewing machine. She was always full of cat hair when she left... It must have been love at first heartbeat - that's how cats recognize what else is in their 'territory'. I bet your babe feels comfy with the purrs too now.
Now, since I can't walk too well, I imagine I'm walking through a big city at night with highheels and shaking my bum to this song... it's an escape and lots of fun, since I lived a few miles away it seems I go back through time..
YouTube - L.A. night - Lily was here (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B436aaCnvWs&NR=1) this is another one with just LA at night and no people.
And then Larry wakes me up with his purrs - but I love him too.
curlybenswife
Feb 17, 2008, 11:54 AM
He is so nosey chery when one of the boys is near and there purring he will open his eyes and look about lol unlike millie is still has the right effect on her :D.
How are you feeling generally hunny?
Chery
Feb 17, 2008, 12:10 PM
Feeling pain, and tired of this planet, but don't worry, I'll still be about for a while tying up loose ends and making amends where they need to be made. It's not just the cancer, but my hips and knees are killing me (pun). I'm not really ready to take those super painkillers they want to give me yet cause I still need a clear mind.
Last week, one of my neighbors and I smoked a special cigarette and we talked and laughed all night, had the munchies like crazy and it was nice, but wouldn't want to make a habit of it - but it was nice for a change to be able to just escape. I didn't even have any idea that he 'indulged' now and then, his mom told him about my problem and he just decided he'd reveal his secret herbal cure... I don't judge because some of the patients in my group use medicinal Canabis, but it's not for me yet... it is something to think abou though. Thanks for asking hon.
How are your stitches healing? Promise me you won't strain yourself, OK? Leave the laundry basket where it is and let Ben carry it for you. Tell him I said so...
Night,night.
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curlybenswife
Feb 17, 2008, 01:35 PM
Hell anythings worth a try isn't it, if it minimises the pain what the heck you just make sure your comfortable and happy everything else can whistle in the wind.
Im OK I'm 4 weeks into my recovery time two weeks left and I feel fine just not lifting anything other than madam hehehehe
alkalineangel
Feb 17, 2008, 11:18 PM
tee hee Allheart you are so funny but my god we love you :)
Hows everything going Al???
Going good. Today... well.. err... yesterday (its 1 am here) was my birthday so we were bery busy. IM back to work and lonving every minute. My little man just started smiling a couple weeks ago. He is 8 weeks old now, my how time flies...
curlybenswife
Feb 18, 2008, 01:10 AM
I know mad isn't it, theo is only 4 and I'm amazed at the smiles we have been having the last week and he is blinking laughing witch I didn't think they were supposed to do yet?
I'm amazed you have gone back to work so quickly here the government pays working mothers to stay home for 6 months to be with there kids.
Chery
Feb 18, 2008, 02:30 AM
My daughter also had 8 blessed weeks, but she had to use up sick-leave that she saved for a long time. She's under US Citizen job. The Germans get up to 3 years if they can manage with only 60-70 percent of usual salary, and they can split this time up with their husbands, or the fathers of the kids. That is what my ex-son-in-law is doing with his new daughter - kind of like getting money for being unemployed. He has no job, but owns two houses and one flat, so he does not get unemployment and is complaining that he cannot make it through each month. I cannot even pay the rent this month due to med bills and medications, and between waiting for official retirement. If I went now, my poor daughter would have to foot the bill to burn me, and that is something I never intended.. but she can sell some pretty nice things to make up for the financial loss. I guess the best laid plans of mice and men apply here.
The hardest part of being an employed Mom is having to give your baby to another woman in those early impressionable years - and you miss out on a lot. I was lucky to be with mine for 5 years at home before I had to give her up. Society today makes it difficult on some of us, but they are a blessing and we should never feel guilty for wanting to make a comfy home with lots of love for them.
Bless all of you for having the pleasure of being moms in the first place. Some are not that lucky... so always look on the bright side and give your babes a great big hug for me...
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alkalineangel
Feb 18, 2008, 12:29 PM
The government allows us to take up to 12 weeks, but it is not paid. I could only afford to be off 8. we are lucky that we work opposite shifts, so one of us is always here with the kids. No daycare this time around.