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cutechiq28
Jan 15, 2008, 08:28 AM
Just like my last post... my last menstrual period was dec. 16... I had an activity with my partner just last jan. 2... then, jan. 4 I had this brown discharges on my pad... it's odorless but has streaks of blood... it lasted up to this day... but its lighter now... it's already 2 weeks present... I'm afraid... if I'm pregnant I'll be dead... I live in a place where abortion is illegal... I'm also high risk because I'm undersize... well, I just want to know what I need to do... or what will I do if I'm pregnant.. . help me... I don't want to have a baby yet... since I'm only 20... and my parent might die if they'll out about this... they don't even know my relationship... Oh my!. my condition is killing me... huhuhu...

rbeauchamp925
Jan 15, 2008, 09:39 AM
First,
Go to pharmacy and get pregnancy test. Your symptoms are not typical of 1 month pregnancy. Then, visit doctor ob/gyn for check up. Too many possibilities to start guessing or suggesting alarming possibilities at this point. If money is issue visit your county health department... rob rn

kp2171
Jan 15, 2008, 10:01 AM
What has changed since the last time you posted?

You are still having sex and you are still worried about your cycle. It not uncommon for women to have unpredictable cycles and its not uncommon for then to have "strange" discharges from time to time...

But there is NOBODY who can tell over the internet if you are pregnant. That requires a test. Period. Any doctor wouldn't ever listen to you talk about your discharge and say "hmmm... yes, you are pregnant"... like it or not... the test is the way to go.

And stop having sex. Period. You are not ready to be pregnant. You are being irresponsible. You have a choice.

My son was conceived while using birth control that has a 5% failure rate when used correctly, and my partner knew her fertitly cycle really well. Even with thoughtful "planning", you can get pregnant, even with birth control.

Please don't post here over and over if you are just going to do the same things over and over. It makes no sense.

cutechiq28
Jan 16, 2008, 06:16 AM
Sorry about that... I haven't had sex with my partner ryt after this discharges
Occurred... my last post was the 2nd day discharges coming out from me... and today is the 12th day... I've done hpt twice... and its negative... I'm planning to go to my doctor this fri... sorry... I'm just asking for any opinion... sorry...

rbeauchamp925
Jan 16, 2008, 06:20 AM
Pregnancy test is very accurate usually... take a deep breath and slow down... don't hyperventilate over possibilities... see your doc... tell him about any other symptoms... fever, abdominal pain, etc. be honest in reporting your complete history... and take one step at a time... rob rn