Recently I got involved with a girl with a boyfriend that she was unhappy with and now it's coming back to bite me because I'm pretty sure they are getting back together and I'm left with no one to fall back on. I feel like when we were seeing each other she was trying to have her cake and eat it, too. I tried to leave twice but let her talk me into staying (I realize that I was wrong for getting involved and that I didn't have to stay, but I will say that I was never in it to play with her; I'd have dated her if I had the chance, but I don't think it was mutual). I feel like I'm the one hurt, while she's getting off scot (sp?) free, and it doesn't seem fair. My question is, do you think she has anything coming, or am I the only one who is going to get what he deserves?

Dude forget the girls, they are making you do some crazy stuff to yourself. Leave this female alone, as she did nothing you didn't let her. After reading all your post, you need a break, and find something else to do, besides look for love in all the wrong places. Its not healthy to fall in love so easy and can't let go. Make yourself happy first, without the females.