Craig80
Jan 13, 2008, 05:15 AM
It's finally come to an end now I think.. don't really know why I'm writing this, think I need to get this sh*t off my chest.
My girlfriend of 8 months dumped me for the second time now in 1 week, this time she probably really meant it.
One week ago when we were out in a club she was there with a friend, and I was there with my friends. Anyway, after an hour and a half I searched for her in there because I missed her and I wanted to be with her a few minutes. So I eventually found her but she just turned away and said "I'm going dancing" and then walked away from me, I was really sad and disappointed. I wouldn't ever turn my back and ignore someone I love like that.
The same thing happened three times that night, she turned her back on me and ran off while I just wanted one minute with her for a kiss. So later on after she had neglected me for three hours I confronted her and asked what was wrong, then she said that she was just going to go and say bye to her friends who were leaving - I suspected something was wrong so I followed her out, and much to my dismay, she was leaving with them. Anyway, I ran up on her and asked where she was going? Because earlier that day and night we had agreed that she would come with me home and sleep at my place. She was embarrassed and finally agreed to follow me home anyway.
I asked what was up and finally that night/early morning she admitted that she wasn't in love with me anymore, but she still loved me. Then she also said that she didn't think that we were meant for each other.
I was really sad and then the next day she had changed her mind and "took it all back" and felt regretful. I accepted it and a week passed, now yesterday, we were out again, and she did the same thing, and then right there next to the dancefloor she just said to me "It's over", and went back to her friend and giggled, then they went dancing like nothing had happened!. can't describe how fu**ing humiliated and sad I felt. Then later that night she wanted me to come home with her anyway, but I didn't have any cash for the bus, she just said like "No problem, I have money". Then when we got to the bus stop she just said "I think it's better if you go home to your place and I to mine" And refused me the money for the trip while all of her and her friends stepped on the bus and left me in the cold, I'm so bloody pissed right now I don't know what to do. I can't believe I wasted my precious time on her.
Was it OK to act like she did? She couldn't give her own boyfriend who had been looking for her for like 20 minutes one kiss/hug, but instead, she walks away and stays on the dancefloor with her friend for 3 hours neglecting me? Should I really put up with that? I wouldn't dream of turning my back on someone I love, I can't believe she would do that to me! I mean.. I asked for a few minutes, not like I wanted to be with her the whole night.
My girlfriend of 8 months dumped me for the second time now in 1 week, this time she probably really meant it.
One week ago when we were out in a club she was there with a friend, and I was there with my friends. Anyway, after an hour and a half I searched for her in there because I missed her and I wanted to be with her a few minutes. So I eventually found her but she just turned away and said "I'm going dancing" and then walked away from me, I was really sad and disappointed. I wouldn't ever turn my back and ignore someone I love like that.
The same thing happened three times that night, she turned her back on me and ran off while I just wanted one minute with her for a kiss. So later on after she had neglected me for three hours I confronted her and asked what was wrong, then she said that she was just going to go and say bye to her friends who were leaving - I suspected something was wrong so I followed her out, and much to my dismay, she was leaving with them. Anyway, I ran up on her and asked where she was going? Because earlier that day and night we had agreed that she would come with me home and sleep at my place. She was embarrassed and finally agreed to follow me home anyway.
I asked what was up and finally that night/early morning she admitted that she wasn't in love with me anymore, but she still loved me. Then she also said that she didn't think that we were meant for each other.
I was really sad and then the next day she had changed her mind and "took it all back" and felt regretful. I accepted it and a week passed, now yesterday, we were out again, and she did the same thing, and then right there next to the dancefloor she just said to me "It's over", and went back to her friend and giggled, then they went dancing like nothing had happened!. can't describe how fu**ing humiliated and sad I felt. Then later that night she wanted me to come home with her anyway, but I didn't have any cash for the bus, she just said like "No problem, I have money". Then when we got to the bus stop she just said "I think it's better if you go home to your place and I to mine" And refused me the money for the trip while all of her and her friends stepped on the bus and left me in the cold, I'm so bloody pissed right now I don't know what to do. I can't believe I wasted my precious time on her.
Was it OK to act like she did? She couldn't give her own boyfriend who had been looking for her for like 20 minutes one kiss/hug, but instead, she walks away and stays on the dancefloor with her friend for 3 hours neglecting me? Should I really put up with that? I wouldn't dream of turning my back on someone I love, I can't believe she would do that to me! I mean.. I asked for a few minutes, not like I wanted to be with her the whole night.