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BAMF
Jan 12, 2008, 02:17 PM
I'm a junior in high school and I still haven't had a real boyfriend. Well, I've had those fake relationships in like 8th grade, but I haven't really had a boyfriend. A lot of guys like flirt with me and I flirt back but since I'm so shy it never goes further than that. It sucks because it seems like I have the oppuronities but I never go for it. I hate being shy. Like, seriously I would do anything not to be shy. But I just can't do it. If anyone has advice to overcome shyness id love ittttt. Thanks. :)
whitney_2008
Jan 12, 2008, 02:39 PM
Hey girlie! I understand how your feeling!! But you have to be strong and sometimes if you put yourself out there then it just makes it worse so its OK to be shy! :) Just go out there and live your life and have as much fun as you can! I hope I've helped some!
zhierl
Jan 12, 2008, 10:30 PM
I'm a junior in high school and I still havent had a real boyfriend. well, ive had those fake relationships in like 8th grade, but I havent really had a boyfriend. Alot of guys like flirt with me and I flirt back but since I'm so shy it never goes further than that. It sucks because it seems like I have the oppuronities but I never go for it. I hate being shy. Like, seriously I would do anything not to be shy. But I just can't do it. If anyone has advice to overcome shyness id love ittttt. thanks. :)
Make a goal for yourself to talk to 10 new people per day and to actively engage them is a small conversation. Once you have that done, you can talk to anyone without being shy.