So there's this girl. I work with her. Recently we have been talking through the office email and off line during breaks. We really seem to get along and I think I'm beginning to really like her. The problem is I am not sure how she feels about me. She is married but her husband works out of town. I'm not the kind of person that would commit adultery so I want to be cautious in my way of approaching her.

Should I cease and desist and just give up on my feeling for her or should I let her know how I feel about her? If I should tell her how should I proceed with that. I'm a very shy person so when I have feeling for someone I tend to hide express them.

Thanks for all the help ahead of this.

You should keep your feelings to yourself and you should cease. It is easy to cross those lines but you know that She is married. Does not matter whether her husband works out of town. Need to stay away from this one and do not proceed any where.

If you proceed eventually even if you do not think you will cross the line. That line will slowly start to disappear and you will find yourself in a world of trouble.

Small talk is fine but anything more, sounds like emotionally connected in more ways will just lead to more things.