Hi,
I was just wondering why females LeapFrog from relationship to relationship. I'm asking cause my ex just dumped me and already seeing someone else which really hurts. I know she has abandonment issues with her father and that that might be it. But to all the females that LeapFrog... Why do you do it? Do you still think about your ex? Do you compare your new man with your Ex? I just need to know if my ex is still thinking ab me as much as I'm thinking ab her. Thanks for reading.

TK

Ok I am prob not the best person for answering this but here is my view anyway...

Ok I have in the past jump from one guy to the next with a click of the finger, but it wasn't love... when I broke from a relationship of 2 yrs which was only puppy love but I really did like (what I thought was love) the guy I was with, Anyway I was one rebond after that and just jumped from guy to guy and every guy I went with I still thought about my ex who I cared so much about; However he was the one who broke it up so I can't say why they break up from one guy for the next, but I think its got to do with a few of these reasons... I stopped loving you for a while before they even left you, they are not committed, or when it starts getting tought they pack up and go to the next guy.. (there is actually a name giving to the last one, were they just don't stick around when things get tough), some people just don't care about who they hurt along the way so long as they get what they want... Sometimes I think they do it to hurt there guy, or because they need something they are not getting any of... Some people even think that because you don't fill that hole in there heart that maybe the next person might so they will jump from person to person in hope that someone will fill that hole but the truth of the matter is no one or nothing can fill it but yourself...
I hope that game some insite on what it might be.

Yeah, someone answer this!

OK was just really thinking about this so I am back again... If it was me and I was with a guy and leaped him for the next, If I still had feeling for the guy yes I would still think about him and a lot, but if I didn't care then probably not really.
Why would I do it, probably because I wasn't satisfied with what I had.
Would I compare, maybe a bit... I'm sure that I would possibly say this was better with the ex or this is better then with the ex, but compairing something that not as good as what it was with the ex would make me regret leaving the ex and even maybe possibly trying to get the ex back, or just leaping into the next relationship...

Well that's what I think I would do, but in saying this I am only 20 soon to be 21 and I have been with the same guy 4yrs 11months so yeah it is hard for me to say, however I have had many sexual partners and that's where I get my answer from.

Women who jump around are insecure about themselves. They don't love themselves enough and therefore feel a need to fill that void to make them whole again. These females are usually from broken homes, or from families that aren't close knit. The ones who actually do stay single are the ones who find themselves and learn to love who they are.

Sorry crispy. :<

No Eura that's exactly what I was trying to say In my first comment on this, I was just merely stating what I have done in the past and stuff... and yep I agree with you totally