Ok! I was dating this guy, he was really great. I fell completely in love with him. He told me that he was falling in love with me too, it's not like I asked him or even brought up the love issue, he simply volunteered the information on his own. Well he lives about an hour away and he was spending a lot of time here, now things just fell apart and he is seeing a cocktail waitress. To add to the situation I just found out that I am pregnant. We still get along and he is still sweet to me when we talk we aren't together anymore. He has also said that he doesn't need a baby right now... well I am going to keep my baby regardless. The problem is I am so in love with him and I want him to come back and be with me. Is there hope for us?

You wrote: "...well i am going to keep my baby regardless." Good, sunshine80, you are doing the right thing, but it will not be easy. There is always hope and never forget that. In the meantime, you have other issues. You heard that saying: "you can lead a horse to water, but can't make him drink"? I would put the "romance" on the back burner and work on getting this fellow to recognize he is going to be a daddy. Lesson #1: Dad's that don't support their kids go to jail". Use whatever resources you can locate (church, governmental agencies, private agencies that support single women) for information about being a single parent.

He's with someone else. So you should move on. And whatever you do, don't use this baby as a pawn to win him.

He has moved on, so it looks like you're a single mom all right. The court will make him pay child support, and the two of you will be tied together by this child. Does he know your keeping the baby?