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ematkinson
Jan 6, 2008, 09:19 PM
I have found that I am unable to orgasm during sex with my boyfriend. The only time I can ever orgasm is during oral sex or when he uses his fingers. Am I doing something wrong that is preventing me from reaching orgasm during sex, or is there something wrong with me?

Wondergirl
Jan 6, 2008, 09:22 PM
The center of a woman's sexuality is the clitoris, not the vagina. Orgasms occur because of the clitoris being stimulated. You are perfectly normal.

raggablue
Jan 6, 2008, 09:51 PM
There is nothing wrong with you or you man, many women can't orgasm. But if it worries you that much you should try different positions that give either g-spot or clitoral stimulation. Read women's magazines for tips and new positions

talaniman
Jan 6, 2008, 11:06 PM
Get on top, and do your thing. Different positions may help, if not have fun trying them all.

raggablue
Jan 6, 2008, 11:09 PM
You said you could orgasm during oral, go oral until it feels close the swapto you on top?

missmeliss
Jan 23, 2008, 12:08 PM
Find an adult store in your area or go to one online. My husband and I have several little gadgets that we use during lovemaking so we are both able to achieve orgasm. Many women can't orgasm without clitoral stimulation, so you are not alone!

buddha01
Sep 2, 2009, 08:09 PM
Have hi pivott his hips up as he inters in deep this puts pressure on the top part of this constant pressure and force can help you reach that orgasm it is hard to do but with practice and learning your body more will give you that tingleling sensation that my wife gets