I have read the posting rules. According to those, it's OK to disagree with someone as long as you politely explain why. Yet there seems to be a train of thought on this site that says "common courtesy would dictate...(nothing but shiney politeness in public)" If I don't know what the traditions of this site are, reading the rules does little to protect me from being verbally abused by those who are blessed with "common courtesy." Maybe a sticky on how to please all members, all the time would be beneficial?

Sounds like you got a 'not-so-polite' private message. Sorry that happened, say cheese.

You will never please everyone, just be yourself.