Before me and my boyfriend broke up he was VERY much into me. We broke up then and are together now again, but he is not that into me anymore. If I ask him I we must rather leave everything, he says no becauce it will destroy him?:mad:

This isn't sounding like the greatest of relationships now. I don't know what kind of music you listen to, but there is a song that called "Lonely Alone" by Reba. The song talks about her loving him, but that she feels lonely because things aren't the way they used to be. It states "I'd rather be lonely alone." I think this is how you are feeling. I think that you feel that even though you are together with him, and you do love him, that you are as lonely as you were apart. Maybe it wasn't time for the two of you to get back together. There's no fire without a flame. I think that it's unfair to you both to stay together because this is obviously not what makes you both happy. Maybe you should take another break. Take some time to figure out exactly what you want and let him figure out what he wants. Life is to short to live unhappily. Just tell him that you don't want to hurt him, but that if he doesn't show that he cares about you, you have no way of knowing and you don't want to be unhappy anymore. You have to take care of you girl. No one else is going to do it as well as you can! Let me know how things go and good luck.

<3 Leslie

Break ups make people feel bad, and now the poor guy is so worried about being dumped, he isn't sure how to act. That's why he tells you that he will be destroyed after another break up. What do you guys break up over, or do you get mad and break up with him?