I just was wondering, what causes us to be overly, or a crueler wording, obessed with a person. There have only been two people in my life whom I have been deeply attracted too. I guess the symptoms would be the trembling in your stomach when your around them, you constantly thinking about them. There was a girl when I was younger that made me feel this now it is happening all over again and what scares me is I am married now. I was just wondering is this normal or do I have a pyschological problem. I haver never stalked and have no desire too, but I just feel so overwhelmed by this person, like kind of high and that's what scares me. Its not like they are a perfect 10, I do not know why I feel so much emotion, I just feel so drawn to them, yet do not know or can not even give a rational explanation why? I thought the puppy dog love stuff ended in adololecense. The weird thing is this is not a person I would normally picture myself with or think of even being with normally. This has had me really stressed for sometime and has raised a lot of concern. Any input would be helpful.

Stop worrying,attractions between people is normal and not unusual .It is only when our actions cross the line and becomes unhealthy for one or the other that the problems start.As most of us married men know we feel these attractions all the time,but that doesn't mean you should act on them.All of us are only human and as humans we are often drawn to other people as a normal part of life.As we get older we supposedly have more common sense as to how we handle these situations as they come up,hopefully better than we did when we were younger.Either way I feel its okay to recognise these feeling as long as our actions are not improper.:cool:

This person your talking about may be someone from your past life. Long stretch if you don't believe it but it is not unusual.

Its like a total seduction of your mind, body, and soul. I know exactly what your talking about, some people call it love at first sight. I've had it happen with the father of my child. I looked at him and the whole room got quiet. Your on a constant high and no matter what you do you will never come down from it. Your not crazy or obsessed your in love.

Holy geese.

This thread is TWO AND a HALF YEARS OLD.

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