View Full Version : Am I too demanding?
13sldr
Jan 3, 2008, 10:07 PM
I would like to find me a girl that has had a no or a couple other partners, doesn't smoke, doesn't drink and has her own life and doesn't have to be with her friends 24/4
It seems now that I am getting older it gets harder and harder to find a girl that will fit thoes requirements
Am I being too demanding?
simoneaugie
Jan 3, 2008, 10:28 PM
No, you 're not being too demanding, just particular. As you get older, the very few partners idea will become more difficult. But more women you meet will have their own lives. If you want to meet girls who do not smoke or drink, go to a gym or join a church. Joining the Peace Corps will net you similar meetings with women. The shy girl in the corner probably doesn't have to be with her friends 24/7. There are cities filled with the type of woman you are looking for. Try Salt Lake City, Utah.
13sldr
Jan 3, 2008, 10:31 PM
I live in phoenix az, and it seems like here all we have is girls that love to have sex and love to get high
13sldr
Jan 4, 2008, 01:37 PM
If anyone has more imput it would be great
ScottGem
Jan 4, 2008, 01:39 PM
How old are you?
13sldr
Jan 4, 2008, 08:38 PM
17
bassinvader
Jan 4, 2008, 09:57 PM
I think you're not very demanding, I mean, you demand your perfect girl, that would be my perfect girl too I can't deny it. Everything happens for a reason, if you don't find that girl just be patient and wait until that girl gets somehow in your life, look for female friends, just friends, don't look for love 'cause you will not be patient enough, I know how it is. So just wait for your perfect girl, she will get into your life. Patience...
13sldr
Jan 4, 2008, 10:11 PM
I know I have to be patient, but I have had a hard life so far and I just need someone to be there for me for once and a girl that fits that discription is someone I kow who won't walk out on me when times get rough
bassinvader
Jan 4, 2008, 10:16 PM
That's the way I've been feeling for about two years now, I can pretty much get any girl that I want, but I want this special girl, now the only girl I know that is like I want is my best friend, and I'm really confused.. enough talking about me.. I guess you just need real love as most people do, hang on, I know its really hard, but you have to wait and be strong, don't be upset 'cause girls will not look at you if you're not confident of yourself. I know what I'm telling you, just wait and live your life normally, forget about love and when love comes close, grab the opportunity 'cause it may be the love of your life, if it's not, get up and look forward, cause Love can make you feel like you're in heaven or it may make you feel worthless...
13sldr
Jan 4, 2008, 10:18 PM
Normal, lol if only I knew what that was like, but I will just live my life and wait for the opportunity