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brokendood
Jan 3, 2008, 12:26 AM
There is this girl who I knew since her freshmen year which means I've known her for 2 mabye 2 and a half years well by the end of her freshmen year and my junior year I really started to like her a lot and she liked me a lot and its been like this for awhile and I've almost asked her out but she went back with her ex and then they broke up again so I try to ask again but then again she went back with her ex and this must of happened like twelve times before I just said ill stay as your friend and I found someone new who was really awesome the person new was also the person I wrote about in my first question here and which by the way we broke up and we are still friends. So after me and this person broke up I started talking to the first person I mentioned and she was still going out with her ex and my little sister was throwing a very big forth of July party and she invited me and a lot of her other friends and I didn't know that this person would be coming with her ex everyone was having fun I was setting up all the games and other stuff for the little kids and getting beer for all the adults and as I turned around I see the girl I like leaning up against the wall staring at me and as I walked by she stop me and said I still like you a lot and that made my day even better so I finished with everything and I started up the grill to make stakes for my family and guest and I looked up and I see the girl I like walking and crying and I see her ex all pissed off
And she told me she broke up with him and that he was cheating on her with like four other girls and I did the hole listening and hugging and its all going to be all right thing to her to make her feel better and then her now actually ex comes up and apologizes and asked to speak to her alone so I let her go and the next thing that happens I see her fall to the ground and him calling her a worthless little b@#$h and I jumped over the B B Q pit and did one of those leaping punches right smack dab in his face and kick him off the property.I get her all cleaned up put some band aids on her scraped hand and my brothers started lighting fireworks and I took her up the hill I have which gives me a very nice view of austins lights and we lay there looking at the stars watching the fireworks and we started talking and then I see her face perfectly lit by the moon and fireworks and she kissed me and she says thank you for everything and we laid there forever. It was like one of those scenes you see in a really awesome romance movie and I was all like wow I just got kissed by the girl of my dreams well the party ends and the next day I get a text saying that she really likes me a lot now and I went to school when it started for about three to four weeks into my senior year and I get called into the office saying that I no longer needed to be here at this school cause basically I got like a perfect score on my S A T and I made a hundred on my early senior exit level exam so basically I graduated early well me the girl were constantly talking to each other everyday no matter what and I haven't seen her since I got out of school which was like two, to three months ago and I was taking any chance to see her so this new year my friend through a party and I went and she went we hung out lit fire works talked for a while and are friends who were there went back over to the bon fire and we stayed in the culstisack and she gave me this look and before I could ask her what she kissed me and I kissed her back and it felt like it was my first ever kiss so finally I asked her if the wanted to go out with me and she said that really is in love with me but she's to scared to acually be with me cause she doesn't want to hurt me how do I get past that how can I get her to be with me I mean she is the one girl I would really want to be with forever but don't get me wrong I really respect her for not wanting to hurt me and I know she is really in love with me every person that know me and her tell us we would look good together and that we should date and all her friends tell me that she really likes me or that she is in love with me but how can I make her get past her worring about hurting me and get her to just wanting to be with me.

Simple Asian
Jan 3, 2008, 12:45 AM
Ahhhhhhhhh I almost blind my eyes reading this.. T_T..


Lol.. it OK...

.. you been thought a lot huh?.

You no.. girls are really easy to get hurt... and once they got hurt they really scared that they will get hurt again... and again... that why she rejected you.

As far as the infor goes... you too well can I say in love?. lol... but she won't let you be her boyfriend b.c she scared that she will get hurt.. and she no that you won't .but she still scared and don't want to try..


The best thing to do now is just give her sometime buddy... dont rush thing... if you love her enough.. you will give her some space time... but be there with her... talk to her... take care of her.. show her your good side.. and eventually she will trust you and get over with it and goes into your arm...

Best wishes

Fr_Chuck
Jan 3, 2008, 02:19 PM
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