Before you read on this may seem like too much info for some.

I vommit after sexual intercourse, This is not a new thing, but its always been this way since the day I lost my virginity... (with every guy I've ever has sex with)
I only vommit after I hit climax and have an orgasm. I do enjoy my sex and everything that I do with the guy and always have. So why would this be? And is it normal?


All views and Appinions would be appricated,
Thank you.

Have you spoken to your gynecologist about this?

No I never spoken to any kind of doctor... I never thought anything of it till I was in this weird conversation with a friend today and she's like that's not normal ey, but before hand just thought it was normal.

It's NOT generally normal, as far as I know. I'm not in the medical field, however.

You really should speak to your gynecologist about this, ASAP.

Not normal.

Talk to the docs. And don't be embarrassed. They went to school for a dozen years after HS and took out many, many tens of thousands of dollars in loans so that they could help you with these kinds of problems.

I've never heard of this... I'm not an expert in this area... but I just don't think it's a "normal" response...

At least worth talking about. Maybe you are just "wired" differently. One girl I dated shook like mad every time she had an orgasm. The first time I got her there I thought she was having a seizure. I was an idiot asking "are you ok???" and all she wanted to do was enjoy her orgasm in peace.

So.. as mentioned, when in doubt don't be afraid to talk to a medical professional. And let us know what you find out.

Yeah I too shake after an orgasm not visiously but I do a bit...
And yeah I don't know I struggle to see a doctor even about minor non embarressing things I doubt I can see one about this... Child birth to me is less embarressing and I went through that twice.

Let's put it this way: You may have something wrong with you that the doctor can fix easily. It may be something minor now, that could turn into something serious.

Do you want your kids to grow up without you?

Isn't a little embarrassment worth seeing your kids grow up?

True, but its never affected me really, yeah OK I have to either have a bucket ready or be close enough to a toilet (or somewhere that I can vomitt) but other then that it doesn't matter... One ex liked the fact of it (which I thought was too wierd) but they never tend to care, except for the guy whom I have spent the last 5yrs with whome puts the ear phones in his ears so he can block it out...
I have tried to Google it but wasn't able to find nothing about it...
I personally don't think its got anything to do with whome I date or attraction or anything like that because like I said it goes way back too my very first time..

And that sounds like a problem to me.

Seriously--how hard is it to say to a doctor "I vomit every time I have sex--is there a possible medical reason for this?"?

True, but I can't even talk to them about painful sex either... I think its related to my upbringing we were not aloud to talk about any matter related to sex in any way. I am only 20 and to me it is difficult

I appreciate that it can be difficult to talk about sex or physical issues with a doctor.

Just remember, you hire them. They aren't your parents. They aren't your pastors. You pay them for their knowledge and help. If you don't access their knowledge because you don't speak up, its like you are leaving money on the counter for no reason.

You do not owe them anything other than professional respect and courtesy... but it places you in a bad position when you look at your physician as someone you need to impress, or that you see them as a "parental" type figure...

A physician, or any medical professional, are "tools" for better health.

We have "fired" doctors who have given bad service, as in we've left their practice and told them why. You need to be empowered in your own health. Its your responsibility... they are just a tool that helps you understand your own body.

So... not kicking you around here... but the sooner a young woman begins to believe that she has control over her health, the sooner she actively demands answers... the sooner she will live a healthier life.

Whenever you feel embarrassed about anything, remember... chances are that physician or nurse has seen SOOOO much more than you can even imagine. Chances are you are a walk in the park.

I'm done stumping.

I would suggest not talking to a gyno, but a general physician.

From what I can remember from medical books, there is no correlation from sexual organs and vomiting. It is possible that the motion of sex induces some nausea to those who are highly sensitive to motion sickness.

However, yes. Talk to a doctor.

true, but i can't even talk to them about painful sex either... i think its related to my upbringing we were not aloud to talk about any matter related to sex in any way. I am only 20 and to me it is difficult


Wait... you have painful sex AND vomiting? And you're embarrassed to talk to a doctor?

Painful sex (unless, of course, you were just having fun with some rough stuff) is almost always an indicator of something wrong! You NEED to go to the doctor!

There is no way that anyone here could diagnose you, or treat you, over the internet. You need to be physically examined by someone who knows your medical history.

Do you want to lose the chance to possibly have more children? Isn't it worth a couple questions to a doctor?

Motion sickness?

It sounds to me like a bad habit... or... subconscious "comment" about what went on just prior to the ralphing... or... an attention getting device.

Note: I'm no physician! Check with your GP about this matter.

Best wishes,

Thabks guys, well I don't suffer from motion sickness, as for an attention seeking problem I really don't think it is that..
I know you guys can't give me proper medical advice, I just wanted to know if it was normal, I don't was to feel like an idiot saying to my doctor since my very first time I have vommitted after sex and have her/him turn around and say oh that's normal don't worry about it some people are like that...

Choux> I don't understand what you mean by... subconscious "comment" about what went on just prior to the ralphing... can you please explain what that mean?

Sure, in your subconscious mind, you are disgusted by sex on some level and vomiting is an outward manifestation of that hidden emotion.

Before you read on this may seem like to much info for some.

I vommit after sexual intercourse, This is not a new thing, but its always been this way since the day I lost my virginity... (with every guy I've ever has sex with)
I only vommit after I hit climax and have an orgasm. I do enjoy my sex and everything that I do with the guy and always have. So why would this be? And is it normal?


All views and Appinions would be appricated,
Thank you.
Did you have bad experience when you were losing your virginity for the first time? Because if you have a bad encounter that prettymuch screws things up.. so think back, see a doctor... because it's not natural to have sexual intercourse and puke after... at lease to me... I hope you figure it out.

Choux.. Thanks that makes much more sense to me now, And sounds like a very possible reason, or something along those lines...

KD33 No my first time was good, I was with that guy 11months before we had sex, And I felt very comfertable in doing it, and I wanted it much sooner with this guy but he wanted me to wait for a bit. So my first time was great... However I have had a bad experience a couple yrs after then, however I been this way since my first time so I don't think its related.

It is psychosomatic. And NO it is not normal! I think you may have a suppressed memory of sexual abuse or unresolved feelings about some part of the sex act-otherwise to me it sounds like an eating disorder brought about by sexual abuse. Are you SURE you have not been abused? Do you have disturbing thoughts or memories?

My sister-in-law is Bulimic and it was caused by sexual abuse-this is why think you may have this problem.

None that I can recall since before my first time I can only recall a bad experance 2yrs after my first time however like I said I was like this before that happened... Nor do I have any eating disorders that I know of...

It is not normal. I have had bouts of nausea with an orgams a couple of times in my life, once when I was a teenager, again more recently, but I really was upset with the person I was with in the second case. I agree that you should get a regular checkup. You can sometimes see a nurse practitioner instead of a gynecologist and they are sometimes easier to talk to. If it makes it easier, write down your question and hand it to them. Just say, "This is really hard for me; I'm embarassed."

When the receptionist asks what the question is, you don't have to tell THEM. Just say it's personal. But do see a medical person and ask about it. I agree that the pain with intercourse and vomiting are not normal!

By the way, I think your extreme embarrassment about seeing a doctor about this may be a clue to your vomiting. Some people are just more self conscious or nervous than others and have different ways of expressing it and feeling it.

Thanks asking, You make a good point about there been a possible link to the vommitting and embarresment to talk to a doctor about it...
I will ejoy the sex and all, and I won't think nothing negative during it, ill love the whole time envolved and all, but yeah no matter how nice and how relaxed the environment is its still the same, I still vommitt, so yeah I can't say its because I am upset or anything like that

If it's just a habit you have developed, which isn't impossible, it's a very unusual one. I think most of us here are just concerned that there might be some physical thing causing the vomiting. I believe you that you are relaxed during intercourse. I didn't mean that you weren't.

Yeah nah I understand that. Well I know I don't have any STDs or anything I mean like I am not been cocky But I have been tested several times after all I got 2 kids, And I have had other medical conditions that led me to been hospitalised and they run full STD tests both those times too, and I have had doctors do tests when I have had to go in for pap smears and stuff too. But yeah as for anything else I wouldn't know

Perhaps you need to discuss this with your physician and find out what their recommendations are. There's a chance it's a psychological or if it's a physical thing they will have an answer. Its not normal and over time could have the same effects on your body as bulimia from the reflux.

I'm not an expert, the only thing I can think of, is when my girlfriend cums, her body tenses up, and sometime lets out a little wind from her back end, yes I find it funny as well, and maybe your tensing up so much that it is putting a lot of pressure on your stomach and causing you to be sick, seriously though you should go and see the doctor.

Thanks guys for your comments... both are good things to think about thanks

This can happen if you have endometriosis or ovarian cysts or other conditions like that which can be irritated with intercourse, and your doctor can rule these things out or confirm them pretty easily. Another possibility is that it could be an emotional reaction. You may find aspects of sex "gross" - I mean, that's the first reaction most kids have when they learn the birds and the bees is like, "really? That's so gross!" Maybe you haven't moved past that reaction yet for some reason. In any event, talk to your doctor. I'm sure it can be fixed for you.

Thanks Guys,
Well I spoke to my foster mum about the whole pain side of things, Not the vommitting side of things though and well When I have done my move and I am a Little less stressed out and stuff she Is going to take me in to see a Doctor, As she knows where I am coming from about not been able to talk about it as she knows what my up bringing was like before they took me on...
But that won't be for a few weeks but yeah, I am in the process of packing and stuff so I will have to get back to you guys about it when I can but I won't have the next when I move so it might take a little while.
Thanks again guys

Maybe you thought that when did it the first time,it was something wrong and you somehow rejected the idea of feeling pleasure from such an abnormal act,and you still think that.And so you get sick because you still think that something isn't write.My girlfriend almost passed through that.Give it a second thought!

Yeah true, worth looking into. I just want to end it, because I hate it