Hi, 1'm 13 and I like this guy who is 4 months younger to me but I don't know whether he knows that. We talked many times and I told him I like hi and he said he felt the same... but now he isn't talking to me and I can't think of anything but him... Am I obsessed or Am I in love? I'm totally confused.. He lives near me and I look out of the balcony evry five minutes. To see if he is playing with his friends down!! How can I make him talk to me again? Is this a fight if he doesn't talk to me? HELP! :confused:

Well, at your age, you're not in love. Love is something very deep and special between two people. It doesn't happen right away and can take a long time for it to really happen.

Yes, you are a little bit obsessed with him. That is normal. Just be patient, wait and be the best person that you can be. If you are meant to be friends then it will happen.

Look he doesn't talk to play gams with your head and ignore him more he will come after you and try to look at boys else he will be jealse

Ignore him he will crowl for you

U are not obsessed with him. You are however, obsessed with getting an answer.

When a guy stops talking to you for no good reasons, your mind starts to play tricks on you. For instance, if you give your mum a gift and she never comments on it. Not only that, she does not talk to you anymore. Would you look at her every now and then just to check if she is looking at your way and smiling at you?

U just want to know what exactly has made him stopped talking to u. You want to find out whether it is something you did or say that has offended him. In fact, you are more concern about yourself than him. You just needed an approval that by telling him you like him, you have not made a mistake.

Stop torturing yourself, dear. You have done your part and it only matters that YOU think you did the right thing. Do not try to guess what is in others mind. When they are ready, they will let you know. If not, why bother?