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flyingup99
Dec 26, 2007, 05:18 AM
I'm 20, and lost my virginity the day before yesterday. Have a few questions I would really like answering please:

1. it really hurt when he put his penis inside, is this normal?

2. it wouldn't go all the way in, is this normal?

3. the thing that worries me most though, is that I bled afterwards, I didn't really bleed during it, but when I went the toilet later on there was blood, and the morning after. Is this normal? And will this happen every time I have sex?

4. the following morning I was still in pain, it felt really sensitive down below and was a bit tender to touch and go to the toilet.

Please help? What's happening to me?

George_1950
Dec 26, 2007, 09:51 AM
You should visit your ob/gyn.

ISneezeFunny
Dec 26, 2007, 10:08 AM
I am a guy. In my opinion

1. yes, for some, it hurts. For some, it doesn't. Really depends on the girl and the guy
2. at times, depending on how low your cervix is and how big the guy is, it could happen
3. if you bled, it means that he either tore something or your hymen broke.
4. some women experience pain a day or two after sex.

All these things are "normal" in some cases, but just to be safe, I agree with George_1950, go see your ob-gyn.

kliem
Dec 26, 2007, 09:48 PM
Agree with both George_1950 & ISneezeFunny.

My concern is that you bled even the following day. Since you said you're a virgin, the brake of hymen should not last that long. The bleeding shouldn't happen every time you have sex. Please pay a visit to your Ob/Gyn just in case there is something more serious. The pain and tenderness or sensitivity were probably by lack of lubrication. Did you have foreplay prior to having sex? If you did, that may explain.

Choux
Dec 26, 2007, 10:40 PM
Generally speaking, when a virgin has sexual intercourse for the first time, the hymen bleeds and it feels so tight it hurts a little. In addition, you may not have been lubricated enough.
My first time, I had all the four experiences you had. My boyfriend took the bloody sheet off is bed!

Now, I think you should go to the doctor and get a clean bill of health since you are concerned about your genitals.