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justagurl:)
Dec 26, 2005, 05:55 PM
Ok... that guy that was in my last forum... Im still crazy about him!! (we did some stuff together last night.. but he STILL has a gilfriend) he felt bad... but my problem is... my parents.. and his parents now are getting involved...

My mom doesn't want me getting together with him AT ALL because she is afraid that if me and MB (him) get together.. then mine and his parents relationship will suffer from us... if we were to break up.

And its crazy because.. I NEVER cry over something like this... ESPECIALLY for a GUY... (like him) I know that sounds mean.. but MAN.. I see sooo much in him when I look in his eyes.. I mean.. We have never ever been this close since SEVENTH grade.. and I'm in NINTH grade now.. and I'm still head over heels for him.

HOW CAN I CONVINCE MY PARENTS THAT IF WE WERE TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP THAT IT WOULD BE OK?

PLEASE ANSWER THIS... PLEASE... I NEED Everyone's ADVICE. IM LIKE GOING FREAKING CRAZY THINKING ABOUT IT... AND HIM... PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE!

manutd4eva
Dec 26, 2005, 06:40 PM
I think he should tell them as they will know u love him but if they hear it from him too it might change there mind.

Good luck

justagurl:)
Dec 26, 2005, 07:50 PM
I don't know if he loves me... but I might love him... It could be Puppy love or whatever.. but OMG... He is INCREDIBLE. His eyes seem so dull to other people... but (I know I have already said this) when I look in them... I see something else. IS IT LOVE? Do you think it might be?

But he couldn't say anything to my parents.. my parents are mean.. and he has seen the mean side of them.. (I think he might be scared of them.)

WHAT DO I DO.. WHAT DO I DO?!

WHY DO I FEEL THESE QUESTIONS ARE SOOO IMPORTANT.. BUT AS TO YOU GUYS PROBABLY THINK It's the MOST RETARDED AND CHEESIEST THING YOU HAVE EVER HEARD IN YOUR ENTIRE LIFE? LOL

manutd4eva
Dec 27, 2005, 01:45 AM
I've just read your other topic you wrote about your parents, are these the same people? If so I wouldn't tell them! But its up too you

fredg
Dec 27, 2005, 06:40 AM
Hi,
It's very hard for me to understand your question. Too many "subject" changes in what you write.
But, it sounds like you are "crazy" about a boy, and your parents and his want you to "butt out".
So, the best thing you can do is forget about this boy, and move on with your life. Believe it or not, the same thing will keep happening until you might be at least 20 yrs old!
You didn't mention your age, so I am gussing you are a young teen. Life is full of surprises and "let downs".
You ask what to do? Move on, meet some new boys.
I do wish you the best of luck, and the more you keep thinking about him, the worse you will make it for yourself.

justagurl:)
Dec 27, 2005, 02:28 PM
Yea... I guess your right. I am 15.. and I can't stand telling my parents about relationships of mine. They are butts! But yea.. I'm just going to move on... or at leats try