K so at work I kind of took a fancy for this girl. She is very cute. Id help her extra at work sometimes to show hr I cared and stuff yadda yadda. So today at work She gave me a christmas card and I bought her a small box of chocolates. In the card it read.

My Name
You are honestly amazing. Don't believe me if I say otherwise. I am so glad that you are apart of my life. I hope you have an amazing christmas and new years eve, of course it's going to be amazing since you know me haha Love Love: her name.

Now I don't actually know if she put love twice or not cause the second one I can't read so it looks like it lol. I was just wondering what do you guy/girls think. Im going to go to visit her at work on mon and ask her out regardless I was just getting other opinions. Another girl at work thinks she likes me to. Plus I don't know if this is true but if a girl likes a guy sometimes shell hit him a bit, like not hard but in the shoulder as a gesture. When I make a joke or make her laugh she does that from time to time lol. Thanks everyone and have a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

It seems to be obvious that she does like you! I don't know why she would have written Love Love twice, though.

How old are you and how old is she? Just curious.

I'm 19 and she is 17, thanks for the response

You're welcome for the response. Thanks for telling me your ages. Do you have any definite plans as to where you would like to go on a date with her?

I was thinking about asking her to a movie, or even dinner so we can talk some more cause in a theater if you talk people tend to throw stuff at you lol.

It sounds like you have some good ideas and a plan! How about both a movie and dinner? I do like your idea about it being important to be able to speak with one another at this stage in your relationship.

Do you know some of the things that she is interested in outside of what she does at work?

We both like to go to the gym, we both like most of the same movies (Fight Club FTW lmao), she likes to dance, she is really big on family like me I take the quote from The Godfather when Vito says *A man can never be a real man unless he spends time with his fmaily* lol I am a big family man. She likes chocolate as you can tell I bought her some lol, she likes to bake

It sounds like the two of your really have a lot in common! All the better for making a good foundation in starting as well as maintaining a relationship!

Since the two of you work together, do you have any concerns about that if your relationship were to start to get serious?

Usually, unless the girl is very forward, she would feel weird saying love and writing the things about you she did if she liked you. I'm 19 also, and this is just my opinion, but I'm not sure if she likes you, or she would find it harder to have sent you a card saying the things it did. I would definitely still ask her out regardless though, she won't say no... but again, at our age, whenever a girl likes you, they will find everyway to indirectly drop hints except directly give a card saying how they feel. Again, just my opinion, and I hope you prove me dead wrong...

GOOD LUCK!

Nah no concerns my friend who is one of the managers there now (he's 21 I believe) is seriously dating a cashier there and there have been no problems. I always think if you dread hat something bad might happen then it will, I like to keep positive.

Nah no concerns my friend who is one of the managers there now (he's 21 i believe) is seriously dating a cashier there and there have been no problems. i always think if you dread hat something bad might happen then it will, i like to keep positive.

I was just checking to see how you felt about the workplace relationship thing. Workplace relationships can work. It's just best to be careful though.

What do each of you do at work? By the way, I do think that you have an excellent attitude! :)

I am a Courtesy Clerk and she is a cashier. I do mostly what people don't want to do lo take out garbage, bring in carts, shovel when it's snowing like today *damnit* help bag for cashiers (which I do for her... alot) lol

Except for the bagging part, while employed at a job, I have brought in carts and taken out the garbage. For me, I think that it's important, that no matter what you do as an employee, make yourself indispensable. It will get noticed by management and also be her! It sounds like you already have an attitude geared towards that way anyway!

Sure sounds like she does like you and flirts with you. It is always worth asking someone for a date if you feel drawn to them. If when you ask her, you handle it light heartedly and sort of off the cuff, then either way, it will be fine.

I wouldn't put too much stock in the "love love" part. Some people sign "bye bye" rather than "bye" so that might just be something she does is sign "Love Love." This is not to discourage you, just want you going in as lighthearted as possible to the experience of asking her out. It is especially important since you work in the same place so that it is not uncomfortable either way it goes. You sound like a positive person who puts forth positive energy and sensitive, picking up on certain things from her.

Always be proud of what you do on your job. Each job done well, generally leads to better postitions.

I do have one question. Did she give you the card and you already had the gift for her or vice versa or after the card you gave the chocolates. It is neither here nor there in terms of your question. I am just thinking if you already had the chocolates before she handed you the card, that had to have made a sweet impression on her.

I am just thinking if you already had the chocolates before she handed you the card, that had to have made a sweet impression on her.

LOL! No pun intended. Correct! :p

Oh my goodness! You are quick tonight! I missed that. Good one. Wish I would have though of it!! LOL

Oh my goodness! You are quick tonight! I missed that. Good one. Wish I would have thought of it!!!!!!! LOL

Me, quick? :confused: Now, I know that you're joking! :D

WE did it at the same time really. I didn't know she got me a card until I got it... well I had a hint cause every time I would wlak by she would stop writing down somethnig and hide it. Before goni to work I thought I would buy her some chocolate there. So when I bought it I gave it to her and she gave me the card... while cashing out I took a step and realised I left the card for a split second then she was like *if you would have left that I would have never talked to you again* as a joke lol

Alpha, sounds like maybe this is going to take off for you and her. She sounds fun and so do you. Keep us posted. :)

I agree! It would be good to know how all this works out for you. Thank you!

I defo think she likes you and just go in on Monday and see what she says there no harm in trying you never know what ashe might say and anyway I think she totally likes you

Sounds like she's definitely interested. Just take it slow and play it cool.

She likes you and it should be a lot of fun getting to know her. Go slow and enjoy it.

You ill keep you guys posted on Monday for sure, and thanks for the responses hearing others opinions and somewhat having your back fills you with a little more confidence sometimes

Ahh jeeze I don't know why but I'm getting nervous lmao. This rarely happens to me lol. Im not afraid to ask her or anything lol if she says yes well good show game on, if she says no well then it is really her loss in the end not mine cause there are other girls who like me right now... this is weird lmao

Go slow. There is no hurry.

How long has this been going on? Its too soon for anything than a first date. Build a relationship, not fall in one.

Son of a mothers lover this couldn't come at a more perfect time *smacks head* this other 21 year old girl I kind of liked to just told me she likes me and wants me to kiss her the next time I see her and saying all this kinky stuff sometime. I didn't know if she liked me so I was being a guy and PLAYING THE FIELD. Now I don't know what to do cause well this 21 yr old girl won't wait forever but what if the girl at work likes me too... damn choices choices

Ok lets lay it out the 21 yr old girl is preety, funny and smart and she don't drink like me cause I'm a fitness freak so her not drinking is a plus in my book

The girl at work is very very cute, smart and also funny. Except she is the party type and she drinks so I don't know cause since she's young and if she's drinking and around other guys that would cross my mind...

Gahh this is horrible lol, I might as well still ask her tomorrow and start to go out with the 21 yr old and take things from there and see how things go... DAMN!!

It's good to keep your options open... why not? Just make sure you are honest with both of them, or else you could end up with nobody...

For me, this situation wouldn't be a problem. When I was dating (a long time ago!), I dated a number of different women around the same time. Sounds like you have some choices here. Never know what will happen. Each day is new! :)

My advice is to still ask her out tomorrow, since that was your plan. I used to try to see how many women I could get to go out on a date with me. Was sort of a contest for myself!

And this 21 year old is some piece of work she told me she wants me to ask her out and kiss her the next time I see her. I'm thinknig of playnig for a bit what they don't know can't hurt I guess and see which one I like more or so. I just never been in this kind of siuation this is killnig me lmao

Yeah, it would be "killing" me too! :D ;)

I need you power clough, I need to know what you do lmao. Like man jeeze 3 other guys like the 21 yr old and she chose me and asked me to call her my girlfriend, but this girl form work I took a fancy for and this all happened on the same week/day the 21 yr old girl liking me, me liking the girl from work... why do I wish I was 80 and coudlnt get it up anymore... :p lmao

It does seam like she likes u. If u fell something back you should ask her out.

I need you power clough, i need to know what you do lmao. Like man jeeze 3 other guys like the 21 yr old and she chose me and asked me to call her my gf, but this girl form work i took a fancy for and this all happened on the same week/day the 21 yr old girl liking me, me liking the girl from work.....why do i wish i was 80 and coudlnt get it up anymore...:p lmao

Please just cool your jets and watch what you do say on this site, please. Okay? It is also used by children.

If I were in your shoes, I would be feeling less pressure about asking the girl at work out tomorrow. Maybe you might want to give it a second thought and also some time before you do ask her out. If it were me though, I would still ask her out. Just maybe not tomorrow. If I knew someone was really all that interested in me and if we had things in common, and she had other traits that I really liked, then I would be concentrating on her first.

I need you power clough, i need to know what you do lmao. Like man jeeze 3 other guys like the 21 yr old and she chose me and asked me to call her my gf, but this girl form work i took a fancy for and this all happened on the same week/day the 21 yr old girl liking me, me liking the girl from work.....why do i wish i was 80 and coudlnt get it up anymore...:p lmao

Exciting time in your life but I would say to "cool your jets" just a bit. Take some long deep breaths, let your emotions get back down a few notches, decide which girl you feel more for and don't let the fact that other guys like the one girl but she chose you, guide your decision. Keep your perspective and also your enthusiasm. I am just saying, don't date a girl for the wrong reason. Enjoy this time in your life... don't wish it away just because you have difficult choices ahead. Be thankful you have choices!! You are blessed! :p A lot of guys would trade places with you to have these choices!! Best of luck! Chose well and wisely! :p

Just to let you know the choose well and wisely never worked out to well... you should have asked that to my driver instructor lmao jk jk

just to let you know the choose well and wisely never worked out to well....you shoulda asked that to my driver instructor lmao jk jk

:p It does sound rather boring to do so and can't say I followed my own advice very often. LOL I am sort of a "fly by the seat of my pants" (airplane pilots use to say this) kind of person, or use to be anyway. Just hoping you find the gal that will treat you right. Much luck to you!

I would like to hear the story though about your driving instructor but for now I bid you goodnight! Early morning tomorrow, well, today I guess now here in Oklahoma!

Go slow and make up your own mind, and don't let anyone rush you.

K well UPDATE: What I'm about to tell you I absolutely despise and I honestyl hate doing it and I have never done it in my life but there was no other way or choice. I was going to meet her at work of course and ask her if she wanted to go out. Stupid me knowing it is christmas eve the store was packed to the point of combustion. So I went upstairs to think cause she wouldn't have the time to talk and on the account she went for her break already. So I took a pen and paper and wrote her a sweet note. Saying things like *everything about her is beautiful* and asked her if she wanted to go out sometime. So I got a gift card for my rents and went to her check stand and when she saw me she gave me this look she always gives me when she sees me and smiles. So we had small talk for like 5 seconds I wished her a merry christmas gave her the note and never looked back and walked out. I didn't want to ask her another time cause I set my mind to today and I DID not want to do it this way it's to cheesy but my options caved in so I did that, hopefully ill see her soon or she will call me I do not know... lol I hate myself. Lmao